This likeable man made a big mistake by not talking with a good male friend about his relationship.Check this out:
It took me all of 54 days to get married to my Filipina from the time I met her online and we will be married six years later this year. Proposed in 18 days. Sure, my mentor talked to me about my situation, but I let him talk to my wife on camera. I also didn't waste four years in a dating relationship.
We decided not to say the L word until we met in person and I gave her the ring.
I feel for the man. Offering to give money on his part was a big mistake.