Sounds like an environment with little to no introverts.2. The noisy environment doesn't really allow people to delve into intellectual pursuits. Honking, endless chatter. munching on food, loud music and karaoke, constant drinking and partying, and 50 cafes and restaurants on every street make for constant distraction. I'm convinced precious silence makes them nervous. They all love noise pollution.
She makes up for that with a great work ethic and is bright. I take her for who she is. I need her to accept me the same way.I'd really like to find someone with a little bit of introspection--emphasis on lil bit. But even that may be asking too much. Your wife seems to follow your lead so at least you got that.
There is definitely something wrong with the Filipino society though. They are smart, productive, and obedient enough to have a rich and prosperous society (Filipino Americans are I believe the #1 wealthiest foreign group in the US and I knew a couple in college who just worked hard, didn't party and were super good Christian guys). There is something systemic in their bureaucracy or society that is a structural flaw that is holding them back. It's still a fairly patriarchal and Christian society, which are the first places I would start looking, so I can't quite put my finger on it.
I am sure the money thing is in the back of her head there is no question about it. But if you are a manly guy and girls like you, then she should be able to be a nice companion who appreciates you for you and as well as your money. Why not look for an immigrant girl who is already located in the USA so you can meet her in person and see how she is. I also think girls who are virgins that are high school graduates are pretty rare in general. I am not sure I would believe that part. Also, you are a white guy I assume . Why are you not looking into white girls or if you prefer the foreign girls (they are better) an European immigrant .If she does not ask for money...you MAY have a keeper. Of course, you will have to meet her in real life.