This is great advice. Could you please elaborate on what you mean by men being pre-screened at the grocery store? Does that mean that a man by himself at such a store is single? I also had my interest peaked when you said a woman started the interaction with you. In my experience guys seem like this at 1st but if you keep initiating then they don't. In "Lady" it says to let the world come to you (passive energy attracts active energy) and if you do the work for a man in the beginning you will have o do the work for him to the end. I don't think I can wear the pant in the relationship b/c I have a high degree of feminine tendencies and behavior which are not conducive to a leader. Do the rules get changed/lax w/ covid? Or stay the course?
Honestly as a man, even though I come across pretty women in public all the time and often the will is there to come up to them and ask them on a date, there's just one in a million chance that she will be a practicing christian. There's way more chance that she will be an atheist and I don't want to waste my time with them.
So my advice is don't look for men in public. If men in public come up to you, be straightforward and ask them if they are christians and tell them that the only date you will have at first is at mass.
Anyway for me, I would say go to Church and participate in the different events and activities and look for a man there.