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<blockquote data-quote="Sol-lek" data-source="post: 1263699" data-attributes="member: 16677">My pleasure!Barring the social norms (look nice, dress well, be social, etc), your best bet would be to simply get involved in the Islamic Community.This is much easier in larger cities (NYC, Chicago, etc).Gradually get involved in community gatherings and organizational meetups, this usually starts at a local mosque. Now here is the thing about meeting a good muslim woman; it probably will not happen via direct contact. You are correct, as prayer is seperated by gender. As it should be. Prayer is chit chat time with God. Strictly.I don't know what it is about Muslim women, but they rarely respond well to cold approaches, there needs to be an element of social proof. (I am talking strictly in the context of a long term relationship/spousal).What I mean is, your best is to make friends with fellow muslims, and eventually be introduced to a potential partner. Again, community events, the mosque, get creative.This is what happened to me. Was introduced to her through a friend, and it slowly built up from there.As I type this, I realize the rather organic nature of the whole process, even holy in a sense.Be religious, get involved in community, make friendships, find Love. Such a stark contrast to the nonsense that goes on today.Good luck brother.Jazak allah khair.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Sol-lek, post: 1263699, member: 16677"] My pleasure! Barring the social norms (look nice, dress well, be social, etc), your best bet would be to simply get involved in the Islamic Community. This is much easier in larger cities (NYC, Chicago, etc). Gradually get involved in community gatherings and organizational meetups, this usually starts at a local mosque. Now here is the thing about meeting a good muslim woman; it probably will not happen via direct contact. You are correct, as prayer is seperated by gender. As it should be. Prayer is chit chat time with God. Strictly. I don't know what it is about Muslim women, but they rarely respond well to cold approaches, there needs to be an element of social proof. (I am talking strictly in the context of a long term relationship/spousal). What I mean is, your best is to make friends with fellow muslims, and eventually be introduced to a potential partner. Again, community events, the mosque, get creative. This is what happened to me. Was introduced to her through a friend, and it slowly built up from there. As I type this, I realize the rather organic nature of the whole process, even holy in a sense. Be religious, get involved in community, make friendships, find Love. Such a stark contrast to the nonsense that goes on today. Good luck brother. Jazak allah khair. [/QUOTE]

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