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<blockquote data-quote="Tex" data-source="post: 1263700" data-attributes="member: 7577">Really a lot of this discussion is forgetting to mention that marriage isn't all &quot;must be religious, low notch count, not degenerate, not leftist.&quot; You're not just looking for the perfect forum member here.The X factor--the biggest factor honestly--is her compatibility with you. Some of the other stuff will even fall into place over time if you find someone who is compatible with you.On this forum we're used to clear-cut answers. We might not like all the answers, but we're used to black-and-white things like &quot;next her ass,&quot; &quot;text her [this],&quot; &quot;do XYZ in this scenario.&quot; But this is not like that.You need to know who you are if you're going to choose your spouse. If you're not going to choose and you have the benefit of society holding you two together with no way out starting with when you're very young, then this doesn't matter because you'll develop into who you both are in tandem. That's why those arranged marriages are so famously happy.But most of us live in a society that values individuality (sort of), which unfortunately leaves the majority of people hanging. So you need to do a deep dive on who you are. Really.That means what kind of vibe you have, what you need in a woman, etc. Honestly, what you need to know are things that are deeper than the questions I just gave you because they're almost indefinable and the above questions really just get you looking in the right general psychological place.Only then do you know what woman you can honestly marry.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Tex, post: 1263700, member: 7577"] Really a lot of this discussion is forgetting to mention that marriage isn't all "must be religious, low notch count, not degenerate, not leftist." You're not just looking for the perfect forum member here. The X factor--the biggest factor honestly--is her compatibility with you. Some of the other stuff will even fall into place over time if you find someone who is compatible with you. On this forum we're used to clear-cut answers. We might not like all the answers, but we're used to black-and-white things like "next her ass," "text her [this]," "do XYZ in this scenario." But this is not like that. You need to know [i][b]who you are[/b][/i][b][/b] if you're going to choose your spouse. If you're not going to choose and you have the benefit of society holding you two together with no way out starting with when you're very young, then this doesn't matter because you'll develop into who you both are in tandem. That's why those arranged marriages are so famously happy. But most of us live in a society that values individuality (sort of), which unfortunately leaves the majority of people hanging. So you need to do a deep dive on who you are. Really. That means what kind of vibe you have, what you need in a woman, etc. Honestly, what you need to know are things that are deeper than the questions I just gave you because they're almost indefinable and the above questions really just get you looking in the right general psychological place. Only then do you know what woman you can honestly marry. [/QUOTE]

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