Well, if you're a straight white male with balls in a major US city, the cold hard reality is that you're NEVER going to fit in, for the rest of the short time the empire has left.
If you're reading this message on this forum, even THEN you're not likely to fit in with an american white society. Are you a southern country boy? Some of you are, but the majority of whites in this country have gone full BLM.
US cities are quickly becoming non-white and will be shortly. They will have crime and related diversity issues.
Why not go to Colombia which is at least cheap and has marriageable christian women? Why stay in a collapsing country with the worst women on planet earth? It's about intentions. LINUX didn't advocate moving to Colombia to increase his "notch count."
Besides, the long term economics of places like Colombia, Vietnam, Armenia etc look MUCH MUCH better compared to the United States.
You're too negative. You're really young, you have to earn the right to be this negative.