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<blockquote data-quote="Rob Banks" data-source="post: 1437686" data-attributes="member: 12046">Just because something claims to be Christian doesn't mean it is actually in line with Christian values.I'm sure you'd look at me sideways if I claimed I was going to a &quot;Christian brothel&quot; or even a &quot;Christian nightclub.&quot;Major cringe.The fact that this is even a thing shows why online dating promotes modern values.Listing your &quot;sex preference&quot; as if you're listing your weekly availability on a job application or resume.I believe God cares more about what is deep in our hearts than what is on the tip of our tongue.We shouldn't judge people for their past. But we can and should evaluate people based on their current behavior. In my opinion, online dating is like advertising yourself for sale/hire as if you were a product to be auctioned on eBay or a job application on Indeed.This transactional approach to courtship and dating is, in my opinion, a red flag.OP, this is not a knock on you. This is how I fewl about all dating websites (&quot;Christian&quot; or not).</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Rob Banks, post: 1437686, member: 12046"] Just because something claims to be Christian doesn't mean it is actually in line with Christian values. I'm sure you'd look at me sideways if I claimed I was going to a "Christian brothel" or even a "Christian nightclub." Major cringe. The fact that this is even a thing shows why online dating promotes modern values. Listing your "sex preference" as if you're listing your weekly availability on a job application or resume. I believe God cares more about what is deep in our hearts than what is on the tip of our tongue. We shouldn't judge people for their past. But we can and should evaluate people based on their current behavior. In my opinion, online dating is like advertising yourself for sale/hire as if you were a product to be auctioned on eBay or a job application on Indeed. This transactional approach to courtship and dating is, in my opinion, a red flag. OP, this is not a knock on you. This is how I fewl about all dating websites ("Christian" or not). [/QUOTE]

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