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<blockquote data-quote="Extinguished Light" data-source="post: 1279576" data-attributes="member: 12694">I've been married for many years and dating my now wife for some time before that but I'm somewhat surprised to see some of this vitriol towards the early PUA scene.&nbsp; No doubt it was full of weirdos and snake oil salesmen, but it also laid the necessary foundation for what came after. As for daygame, it was my preferred method, and I stand by the fact that it worked pre-tinder.&nbsp;&nbsp; Probably 95% of my success in dating was from daygame, and its also how I eventually met my wife.&nbsp; It suited my personality better, I was more comfortable approaching a girl in the middle of whatever activity I was doing anyways and striking up a conversation and building a connection than going out to some bar or club and competing as one monkey in a pack for the attention of women who were also there to preen and mate.&nbsp; All of the more enduring observations of game regarding the nature of women and how to interact with them better apply to daygame, particularly when the goal is finding candidates for an LTR, than to night game where the approach and focus was necessarily sexual.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Extinguished Light, post: 1279576, member: 12694"] I've been married for many years and dating my now wife for some time before that but I'm somewhat surprised to see some of this vitriol towards the early PUA scene. No doubt it was full of weirdos and snake oil salesmen, but it also laid the necessary foundation for what came after. As for daygame, it was my preferred method, and I stand by the fact that it worked pre-tinder. Probably 95% of my success in dating was from daygame, and its also how I eventually met my wife. It suited my personality better, I was more comfortable approaching a girl in the middle of whatever activity I was doing anyways and striking up a conversation and building a connection than going out to some bar or club and competing as one monkey in a pack for the attention of women who were also there to preen and mate. All of the more enduring observations of game regarding the nature of women and how to interact with them better apply to daygame, particularly when the goal is finding candidates for an LTR, than to night game where the approach and focus was necessarily sexual. [/QUOTE]

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