Donfitz007 said:Well guys I took all the advice you guys gave me.
She wanted to see me so I came over, we discussed the trip and she seemed to have her doubts, we watched the video of "all fall down-Kanye West" and I got pretty emotional. Later that night she told me how she saw me as a boyfriend and said the flight there is going to destroy her. She also went on about how she doesn't think she can do it and how she's going to want to talk to me all the time etc etc.
I then told her maybe its best we end things now. She cried, I mean cried horribly, but I held my frame and told her it'll be ok, this would give her time to get over me before the trip. I left after I hugged her, she let go of me in the most depressing, soul shattering way, like she lost all hope.
Interesting turn of events. In your OP you inadvertently described her perspective in hope to not break the forum rules, which turned out being closer to the truth than what you were thinking of your fling at that point.
This thread is essentially a perfect example of how damaging casual sex dating is, exemplifying the reason, why it is now banned from this forum. This was essentially the kind of bullshit I was going through in my early years before properly abandoning it.
She "saw you as a boyfriend", while you were enjoying the casual sex and of course you both didn't talk about it. All just easy-peasy and uncommitted. We used to make proposals and engage, so everyone knows what's up. We used make vows to stick together. We used to stay chaste before marriage to protect the soul from damage, because we knew that humans are not made for casual sex (especially females are not able to properly discern between bang, emotions and commitment).
Yet her intentions to leave the country for months while "seeing someone as a boyfriend" perfectly shows the cognitive dissonance and overall confusion of her female mind by Western brainwashing. She got hurt, because she made the wrong decisions based on a broken society, which encourages girls traveling alone and sleeping around.
Again, this is a perfect example to learn from why the forum rules are now how they are. It's like God saying: "Told you so!"