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Message: <blockquote data-quote="_Samo_" data-source="post: 1279174" data-attributes="member: 2694">This brings back some memories. I was in a similar situation a few years ago, although the relationship was fairly new. She was planning to go on a student exchange to Spain for a few months in the next year. I told her if she does that then we are done, simply. She was a little surprised at first but cancelled it after no real debate, said she understands and that the relationship is more important to her. It ended a few months later anyway, no idea if she ended up going or not.I would give her this same choice If I were you, your relationship or this trip. Realistically you cant have both and if she goes it would probably be in your best interests to move on and find a girl who actually cares about your relationship.</blockquote>