Girl Ignores Tinder Guy, He Beats Michael Phelps For Gold And She Attention-Whores

[Goldin Boy]

The guy's lame messages didn't pass the jumbotron test so I'm not surprised the convo went nowhere. He probably only got the first reply back because he's fit.

Even world-class athletes like him need game or else he's gonna be in Jariel's next installment of "Rich and Famous Men Get Played".

 

[MMX2010]

Thank you, TLOZ

 

[General Stalin]

Great analysis TLOZ, but there is one part I can't say is that accurate:

The time when the arrangement started going bad came later -- not when feminism told women to take a job, but when it convinced them (and everyone else) that they need to "lean in" and become "fucking great scientists". There is really no need for all women to go back to tending to their families 24/7 (and modern technology makes such a conception obsolete in any case); we just need to stop artificially placing them in positions of responsibility that they are unsuited for and do not enjoy. But if they can be "administrative assistants" who perform their simple and well-specified duties, and spend all their plentiful free time stirring up gossip and intrigue in their daily surroundings as well as on social media, everyone would soon find themselves greatly relieved and satisfied with the way things are.

I would argue where it started going bad was when society started actively pushing women to go into higher education and start a career. Today it has become something of a complete expectation. It's generally seen as a "waste" if a woman marries and has children fresh out of high school. It's not so much that women now have choices - but rather they are pressured/programmed by society to the far opposite extreme of pre-liberation era women.

I have met very few women, if any, who aspire to enter a challenging and demanding field of work. They still aren't on the cutting edge of technological advancement or scientific discovery of any kind, and they aren't trying to be. The problem stems from a culture where women who have been pushed into a way of life that is designed to not require men, but see them merely as an accessroy for company, entertainment, and sexual pleasure.

 

[Tim in real life]

This serves to remind me Anglosphere women are glory hunters; I personally saw a military now-exGF who cucked her military BF, before dumping him. Keep in mind this happened before Obama/during W Bush's 2nd term.

 

[AlphaRN]

Could you imagine a life like this? A life where you lack any real sense of purpose or accomplishment. A life so vapid that a two minute text exchange is the highlight of your life? What a disgrace to evolution.

 

[R_Niko]

if I ever get famous, a ton of women are going to feel like superstars for ghosting me on Tinder or via text. This makes me not want to get famous.

 

[Razor Beast]

if I ever get famous, a ton of women are going to feel like superstars for ghosting me on Tinder or via text. This makes me not want to get famous.

Delete and create a new tinder account right before you're about to make it to deny them attention they don't deserve.

 

[R_Niko]

if I ever get famous, a ton of women are going to feel like superstars for ghosting me on Tinder or via text. This makes me not want to get famous.

Delete and create a new tinder account right before you're about to make it to deny them attention they don't deserve.

I'm assuming they have already taken screenshots. Women are packrats when it comes to dirt.

 

[CaptainS]

if I ever get famous, a ton of women are going to feel like superstars for ghosting me on Tinder or via text. This makes me not want to get famous.

Delete and create a new tinder account right before you're about to make it to deny them attention they don't deserve.

It wouldn't matter. Girls you never knew will pretend she was that girl you dated for a while until she decided you're better off as friends.

My friend was in a band in LA and, when they started having some success, had chicks pulling that scam left and right. They claimed to be "blowing rails backstage" and "dropping the best Superman E" with him. Meanwhile, he doesn't even drink.

 

[Hootie]

I think that many men -- and 'sphere dudes in particular -- misunderstand the reason for women's love of, and addiction to, social media. It's really not just attention whoring. Of course there is plenty of that, but it's far from being the whole story, or even most of it.

The even more important reason -- so basic and simple that it can almost be forgotten -- is that most women are very social creatures. They love and enjoy social action, of almost every kind, for its own sake. They love conversation, intrigue, gossip, the whole gamut of the social game, and they love it in the same ineluctable way as many men love driving a car. Women hate boredom and the experience of social isolation, even if it lasts a mere moment; so they're always looking to stir things up, to get some social action going. And this is the one (non-sexual) aspect of life that they are often good and creative at.

Social media provides them with an endless opportunity to do so, and being the simple and direct creatures they are, they take it -- because why wouldn't they? It expands the circle of possibility tremendously -- but it's not merely, or even mainly, for the purpose of directing pointed attention to themselves; that is a part of it and more so in some cases than others, but it's as often as not subsumed in the more basic purpose of just having an ever-replenished and ever-absorbing supply of things to gossip about, to bitch about, to laugh about, to whine about and to share -- and this, for them, is a greater part of life than most men can readily imagine.

If you take this humble Texan slut, is she really posting this Tinder exchange to "attention whore"? Sure, but more than anything she posts it because it's part of her natural social instincts: she sees the dude win the gold medal, she recognizes him from her Tinder, and she's like "OMG, this is so crazy... I have to tweet this!!". She is not really doing this out of a deep seated need for validation as much as because she is a completely social creature and she cannot imagine missing an opportunity to get some action going, maybe some retweets, some correct OMGs and other reactions from her friends in her timeline, even something from her mom (this is from her Twitter account):

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If she can get some attention whoring props from this, so much the better -- but it's not really the most basic thing that drives her (and of course the crack that this is her "greatest accomplishment" is meant as a self-deprecating millennial piece of sarcasm, lest someone mistake it for anything else).

TLOZ, great points. Its so inherent in who they are, the socialness and attention seeking. Allow me to pile on a theory I've been toying with lately and forgive me as I'm not as eloquent as you.

I worked in a female dominated office for two years and wow the bullshit I'd hear. Whining, preening, screaming, crying [my manager cried infront of the CEO and SVP at a bar. Like full blown on, had a meltdown when the affable CEO asked a question about an intraoffice quibble over a client and she shouted "I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT" while bursting into tears and running to the bathroom. To which the blunt. man of the people CEO says "WHOOPS, wrong question"], temper tantrums, gossip, inane social media bullshit, and everything inbetween. I could go on adnauseum but you get the picture.

My head hurt for quite some time. My soul was flatlined.

Then one day, after being bitter with this shit for too long, it made sense.

You know how your mom just can't help but inquire about something when you return from a trip? How women can't help but comment on the weather? How they can't help but complain if the pizza is a little messy or the elevator is too cramped?

Its all a reproductive/survival mechanism. By bringing up this bullshit, they get attention and thus if something goes right or wrong, those eyes paying attention will have human instinct take over and come to the rescue.

Thats why women are so social, safety in numbers. They dont actually care about anything theyre discussing. They care about what the social stickiness "investment" provides them.

Whether its good attention or bad, the goal is attention. Attention is safety for them.

Also, going to the reproductive point, if they have attention, they are worth of care and investment and thus will have provisioning if a RVF'er shoots a live one and pulls the rip cord once the tab turns blue. SEE, Mommy, might not be able to lock daddy down but her social skills locked you down that sweet lego set, Gameboy plus, and some other shit.

Once I understood all this, I stopped "hearing women" and started hearing white noise from them.

It also explains why some chicks resent men on a gut level and others love the "bad boy independent" streak, we dont need their fucking nets and can fend for ourselves. (I thought of goldmund when I wrote that line, no homo)

Ok, thats it. TLOZ, great stuff. Interested to see if my "meta" analysis on attention is obvious everyone or I'm a genius. HA!

 

[Delta]

Breaking News: Tinder is a big joke to most girls.

Keep in mind that their experience is very different from yours. They can pull in a zillion matches a day with no effort, and those douches are tossing out every pathetic line conceivable. If I had such a luxury, I would make an effort to hone in on the best candidates because that's what makes logical sense, but obviously girls don't think that way. The desperate/thirsty/spammy behavior of men on Tinder makes it feel like something that should not be taken seriously, and girls act in accordance with that feeling. Thus, they're content to allow scores of men way out of their league to slip though the cracks without giving a shit. And if something like this happens? Funny story! No big deal cause there's plenty more where that came from.

 

[eatthishomie]

And the above is exactly why I think approaching in person is going to become a powerful niche in the next decade or so.

Most men are cowards who hate doing things that make them uncomfortable, and spamming thirsty messages at girl after girl online from the safety and relative anonymity of their smartphone is the safe and comfortable thing to do. Therefore, girls get so much male attention online that they don't even remember half of it. Who will they remember though? The one guy or one of the few guys who had the balls to approach them in person.

 

[the-dream]

I think that you are all way overthinking this and looking for a deeper meaning when there is not one. It is just a girl posting something a bit funny on social media about like girls do.

 

[fugly1000]

Lol. When a girls pulls that crap on me. I ask them,"why aren't you married to him and having his babies?"or "yeah you'd probably never going to better than him, he's one in a million". You guys should see the looks on their faces.

 

[XPQ22]

I think that you are all way overthinking this and looking for a deeper meaning when there is not one. It is just a girl posting something a bit funny on social media about like girls do.

So...you must be new here...

 

[kosko]

And the above is exactly why I think approaching in person is going to become a powerful niche in the next decade or so.

Most men are cowards who hate doing things that make them uncomfortable, and spamming thirsty messages at girl after girl online from the safety and relative anonymity of their smartphone is the safe and comfortable thing to do. Therefore, girls get so much male attention online that they don't even remember half of it. Who will they remember though? The one guy or one of the few guys who had the balls to approach them in person.

You don't have to wait ten years...

With the speed shifts occur you will notice this niche in 10 months. Go ask any girl that last time she was "courted" in person (with good game) it will take her a while to remember and more times than not she will tell you it was a success. So few men are approaching these days that many women (who are not social retards) will reward the man with his big balls and at least give him a shot at a date.

Engaging in person will become a lost craft and those who can excel at it will be rewarded greatly. With very young girls I notice how they react to genuine conversation. They will love to chat and talk and if you peak their interest they will be engaged. It is the 20-26 year olds who have no attention spans though, but there will be a shift soon enough.

 

[Rhyme or Reason]

^ When has in person game ever been anything other than the best way to go?

 

[TheDuncan]

I love attention seeking sluts, fuck them like dirty whores with no respect and never call them back.

 

[ChickenLover9T9]

Breaking News: Tinder is a big joke to most girls.

If I (men in general) had such a luxury, I would make an effort to hone in on the best candidates because that's what makes logical sense, but obviously girls don't think that way.

The desperate/thirsty/spammy behavior of men on Tinder makes it feel like something that should not be taken seriously, and girls act in accordance with that feeling.

Thus, they're content to allow scores of men way out of their league to slip though the cracks without giving a shit.

Very well said. If I too had such a luxury I would boil the selection process down to a science, use extensive planning, spreadsheets and so on, in order to most efficiently screen for the best candidates for as little energy as possible. But because women are generally passive and not responsible for moving the interaction forward, this can actually work to their detriment in the sense that they will still deny hundreds or thousands of men way out of their league because they just don't take it seriously. Every now and again they may agree to a date, a lot of times with a man who is just good at getting the girl off the internet and out of the house. Many other women just don't take it seriously at all and even having an Olympic standard body is not enough. A lot of women online are socially awkward and anxious, to the point that many of them would, when it came down to it, not go on a date with a verified Justin Bieber. If you talk about approaches made versus actual sex, online game in the west has the lowest average conversions of them all. You can spam 200 in an afternoon and get nothing. An average guy doing 200 day time approaches is a lot more likely to get something, although it's a lot harder work.

It just shows that women are not the flawless judges of male attractiveness we sometimes give them credit for. Whether online, in a bar, or on the street, they form opinions of every man from everything that she can see. Online, that (below average) girl could only see a picture and his two shitty messages. She is not psychic and did not know he was to be an Olympic gold medallist and famous for a few weeks. The moment she knew she regretted not responding. Of course she also posted it for attention. It's doubtful she could lock down a guy like that, especially with gold medal status now, so the next best thing is to broadcast "I rejected Olympic gold medallist OMG", bask in the attention and make herself feel a bit better because on some deep level she knows she is unattractive and basic.

 

[Conquerer7]

I love attention seeking sluts, fuck them like dirty whores with no respect and never call them back.

Same here. I fucking love sluts. We just know they have no self control and don't deserve respect when banging