Girls you only meet in groups

captndonk

captndonk

Woodpecker
Hello,

there are 3 girls, which I find attractive, all are going to the same gym as I do. But so far I only smalltalked with them a bit.
I am looking for signs that they are interested and there are some but there also signs they are not interested. So I really don't know.

1. pro: we alreay exchanged all the basics, she didn't mention any boyfriend, she asks questions: cons: most of the time I am the one initiating the talk
2. pro: she was a bit under my radar, but recently we were the first to appear for a class and she seemed really happy to talk to me and did some qualification and asked questions. Even during class she would make eye contact some times. cons: when the class was over she just walked away.
3. this is the weirdest one: Yesterday we met at the counter in the gym and she was smiling at me giving me full attention, talking and joking and than 3minutes later in the class, when her girlfriend was with her, she ignored me. (not even making eyecontact)

Unfortunately I can't expect to run into them alone anytime soon (although it might happen). So how would you proceed?

I really can't ask all of them out one after another and become "that guy". So there must be a more social aware way.
 
Laurus

Laurus

 
Banned
Trad Catholic
When you think this much about some women who are not a part of your life, you should re-prioritize your priorities. At this point women should be low on your priority list.

Several red-flags:
- go to the gym -> exposing their flesh -> narcissistic
- likely they are vaccinated (infertile) if they can go to the gym, which means you may be vaccinated as well
- you focus on three at once, which is stupid and honorless; nothing good comes from playing the field
 
The Beast1

The Beast1

Peacock
Orthodox Inquirer
Gold Member
captndonk said:
Hello,

there are 3 girls, which I find attractive, all are going to the same gym as I do. But so far I only smalltalked with them a bit.
I am looking for signs that they are interested and there are some but there also signs they are not interested. So I really don't know.

1. pro: we alreay exchanged all the basics, she didn't mention any boyfriend, she asks questions: cons: most of the time I am the one initiating the talk
2. pro: she was a bit under my radar, but recently we were the first to appear for a class and she seemed really happy to talk to me and did some qualification and asked questions. Even during class she would make eye contact some times. cons: when the class was over she just walked away.
3. this is the weirdest one: Yesterday we met at the counter in the gym and she was smiling at me giving me full attention, talking and joking and than 3minutes later in the class, when her girlfriend was with her, she ignored me. (not even making eyecontact)

Unfortunately I can't expect to run into them alone anytime soon (although it might happen). So how would you proceed?

I really can't ask all of them out one after another and become "that guy". So there must be a more social aware way.
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In another life , this is how I would have done this. I would have chatted all of them up and keep them in a "gym social circle" rotation. Say hi each day during the week. Be friendly ask them all how they are doing.

Eventually, I would ask them during the week if they would be interested in going to a party i was organizing sometime in the future. Then when they're at your party, you have the home field advantage to isolate to gauge her interest for a serious relationship and a date .
 
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