Good articles about older men and younger women

[Laner]

You will never crush her further than she already is.

Just being happy and full of lust toward a young woman is enough to drive any woman your own age crazy.

Women are obsessed with youth and beauty. Even before it was all blamed on pop culture 'unrealistic beauty standards', women put these same standards on each other anyway.

I might talk about how prostitutes, who are 90% young, could have served the purpose (old women don't seem to have a problem with men using hookers, ha) but that being in a relationship with a young women gives you more options. Just the smell of her fertility makes you think about these possibilities (babies, vitality, let her fill in the blanks).

With old women, your only possibilities are companionship and some un-lustful sex.

 

[XPQ22]

I'm in my late 30s, my main girl is 8 years younger than me and looks younger than that.

For a man pushing 40 I think around 25-27 would be ideal.

I find the 18-25 set just too dumb flakey and annoying to deal with on the regular, and there seems little point to it when there are plenty of girls in their late 20s who look 90% as good and are lining up for it.

YMMV.

 

[kmhour]

She states that she knows plenty of "very masculine men that are sucessful and could easily bed a 19 yo said they wouldn't, because it's yuck".

why are you even dignifying this with a response? smile, thank her for her concern, and go on living your life.

 

[John Michael Kane]

I'm 34, currently single. If a woman asks why I date women 10 or more years younger than myself, I just say that any woman trying out for the job of wife has to be up to the challenge of bearing many of my children, and I prefer women who believe it is better to settle down early instead of getting stds and heartbreak by bed hopping. In summary, I tell a woman asking that kind of question that it is a woman's role in life to find and serve a worthy man, and that she will find great joy in it.

 

[Rob Banks]

Tell the old hag to go screw herself right in her old, dried up twat... in those exact words.

It's classic feminist BS - what women want is what men must also want.

OK Cupid offers a slightly more scientific explanation. Obviously you can't use their article because they've framed it as "go for the older, low-hanging fruit... you won't have much competiton"... https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/

So whoever made that graph is expecting us to believe that women 32 and older prefer men who are younger than them?

I call BS on the whole concept of "cougars" who want "young hot men with sexy bodies." It's the same thing as when a woman stares at a man's ass and claims to be turned on by it. These are just examples of women trying to show how "equal" they are to men.

 

[SlickyBoy]

My acquaintance insists that the reason that I see her is that I'm "lazy" and that I'm hurting the young woman's development. She also believes that somehow its better for the young woman in question to go through endless hookups with young men than to see me regularly.

Lazy?? This broad has no self awareness of what she was probably like at that age - young women can be a SHITLOAD of work if a guy wants to keep her around and potentially turn her into anything serious.

Now, if he doesn't give a shit whether she sticks around, maybe not. But sounds like you're into this girl and to keep her happy the last thing you can do is take her for granted (without losing frame, of course).

As for articles, anything interviewing Donald Trump is probably a good place to start in terms of having the correct outlook and attitude, but it sounds like you already do.

 

[DaveR]

Tell the old hag to go screw herself right in her old, dried up twat... in those exact words.

It's classic feminist BS - what women want is what men must also want.

OK Cupid offers a slightly more scientific explanation. Obviously you can't use their article because they've framed it as "go for the older, low-hanging fruit... you won't have much competiton"... https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/the-case-for-an-older-woman/

So whoever made that graph is expecting us to believe that women 32 and older prefer men who are younger than them?

I call BS on the whole concept of "cougars" who want "young hot men with sexy bodies." It's the same thing as when a woman stares at a man's ass and claims to be turned on by it. These are just examples of women trying to show how "equal" they are to men.

Keep in mind that the data is a sample of online dating participants. With that in mind, my guess is that those women have a deluded sense of their appearance/age. I.e. the online market, especially in the US/UK, is a massive sausagefest.

Also notice how they tend to have crises in their 40s when they realise that they're truly post-wall...? The graph only goes to 50, but it looks like they start to accept their diminished social market value at that age.

The graph for men also shows some anomalies for men in their mid-40s, although it's far less extreme than what women experience.