Guess Where She's From

[OkStudies]

^ So if the woman had no issues, player's would not pump and dump her? Is that logic correct?

That's what being a player *is* dude. A player's job is to get pussy from as many women as possible. She is a female player. She has game.

What I'm saying is if you're a player, you are not morally superior to her.

 

[aphelion]

Not paying for your meal is stealing from the restaurant. Don't punish them for this girl's narcissism.

On the contrary, asking to split the check at the end of the meal would result in a HILARIOUS fucking interaction.

Bait her by talking about Independent Womyn shit. That Beyonce song, however you can get her to preach on and on about how independent she is, doesn't need a man, etc.

"Wait, I don't recall being asked to pay for your meal. I don't understand why you're getting so upset. Don't you believe that women are just as capable as men to take care of themselves? I thought we were just talking about that."

 

[Kingsley Davis]

^ So if the woman had no issues players would not pump and dump her? Is that logic correct?

That's what being a player *is* bro. A Player's job is to get pussy from as many women as possible. She is a female player. She has game.

All I'm saying is if you're a player, you are not morally superior to her.

"bro"?

So you're comparing been skillful in the crimson arts/game with saying yes to a dinner date?

 

[aphelion]

The 'game' for a woman is 'extracting resources without expending sexual capital or suffering negative consequences'. So, yes. She's the equivalent of a guy with a high number of approaches but no relationship game.

EDIT: To clarify, if her relationship skills are subpar, she ends up dealing with an endless number of stalkers. Her skills are to screen for innocuous herbs with wallets who won't write her name on her cat's corpse in semen when she sends the ILYBNTW text, and to artfully deflect their advances after she has received a satisfying amount of squeeze from them.

 

[Kingsley Davis]

I recalled this a few years back. This one calculated she saved $1200 a month on food from going on Match.com dates.

"I'm a traditional girl," she said. "And to me, I feel a part of dating is if a guy wants to take me out, what's wrong with him taking me out to a dinner and me expecting for the bill to be paid?"
Sporty said she joined Match.com while she was living in New York two years ago, and she soon discovered there were a lot of well-to-do guys in Manhattan who were interested in her online profile."

http://abcnews.go.com/Technology/date-food-women-seek-fancy-dinners/story?id=15107409

 

[TheMan]

Ah wait, scratch that plan... she uses Jdate.
soo unless there is such a thing as a black jew :s


also check out this gem from her blog

These guys should feel honoured by this open invitation to date me.

:dodgy:

Black Jews? Yes there are. Currently only really a small number of Ethiopians are recognised as such, but historically there are quite a few African groups that have significant Jewish heritage and some sort of claim to be called Jewish. A good example of such a group is the Lemba of Southern Africa (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lemba_people). The main reason such tribes are not recognised as Jewish is that it was always male Jews (usually from Yemen I think) who traveled to Africa many centuries ago. But people like the Lemba claim that this shouldn't matter since apparently these Jews traveled before "Judaism by matrilineal descent" was established and they have upheld many Jewish customs and rituals for centuries.

My guess is that as a black person in Canada your heritage is probably West African. According to Wikipedia there were some Jewish groups in West Africa as well. Check out this entry for clues: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African_Jews

Anyway, back on topic. It would be an troll of epic proportions if you presented yourself as a "lost" African Jew from the Igbo tribe of Nigeria on JDate to this girl and got her to believe you. Let us know how it works out.

As for the girl herself:
How desperate for food is this girl? I've heard of starving artists and "aspiring" actresses, but if I imagined myself to be in her position there's no way I'd put up with enduring dates with random people just to get a dinner at a (fancy?) restaurant. I seriously doubt that a Jewish girl in Toronto in 2013 is poor. Or anywhere close. Does she really needs guys to fulfill her calorie requirements? She should rather direct her energies to convincing her parents to provide her with more money, not waste her time eking out a few dinners from random guys.

...Wow

 

[samsamsam]

Here's a link to her OKC Profile: http://ht.ly/q8COR

I don't have an OKC account so I can't see if it's still active.

Google Cache gives this: http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:21F3Rgdxz5QJ:www.okcupid.com/profile/Metildaasaurus%3Fcf%3Dregular+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk

My self-summary
I am an organization fanatic. Don't go a day without my day planner. Always on the go! I love my job, I'm always working away! Being a full-time cop isn't easy. Ball busting 101 is my class of choice. Don't let the pretty face fool you. I also love Poerty.

What I’m doing with my life
Eat. Sleep. Be a Cop.

I’m looking for
Guys who like girls
Ages 19–34
Near me
Who are single
For new friends

I imagine she is joking, given that she can't keep a job. But she is bat shit crazy probably. So use a fake name. And she loves "Poerty" whatever that is.

 

[Excelsior]

It works out well since both sides understand that neither could ever really bring the other home to Mom.

imagine bringing home a white girl who also happens to be Jewish -- to black mothers who tend to be devoutly Christian ...- talk about beat down time...

My mother would give zero fucks.

I've even got a Jewish uncle who brought my aunt home to his family. Yeah, he was disowned for it (this was 40+ years back), but they made up eventually and all is well now. Got two Jewish-Jamaican cousins and a couple of Jewish-Jamaican-Italian kids who could technically call me an uncle (or cousin...something like that).

In any case, I'd have no problem bringing a Jewish girl home and I suspect she'd fit in fairly well with my family given how accustomed we are to mixing (extended family includes Scots, Austrians, Englishmen, English women, Italians, jamaicans, Trinidadians, Nigerians, Ghanaians, Vincentians, Canadians...).

I'd certainly never write a girl off as a long term prospect because of her race/ethnicity. I can see how I'm very much an exception, though, and understand that many will write me off because of mine. Kind of wish that weren't the case and more people generally had the attitude that myself and my family possess with regard to mixing, but it is what it is.

Best to just make the most of it, accept how you're perceived (and that you can't change it) and get your touches in.

 

[j r]

Jesus! What is going on up there that has some of you cats so spooked of crossing some common dinner mooch. I find it hard to believe that sticking some chick with a bill will have you the subject of a citywide manhunt.

Anyway, the whole point of the prank is to convince her that you were going to pay but that something happened. She should be thinking, "Who the fuck is this guy who thinks its OK just to leave me here?" So, you have to build enough confidence during the date and drop enough bait to at least have her legitimately confused about what you're up to.

If you're really worried about the Mounties hunting you down, you can do something like pull out a fake bankroll, say with enough cash to cover half the bill, and leave it on the table while you go "deal with your issue." Then text her five minutes later saying that you have to take care of something and to use the cash you left to pay the bill. If she complains, tell her that you'll meet her somewhere to give her the rest in an hour.

If you're running a con like this, you really have to be able to read the chick and run audibles. It's basically just trolling in real life.

 

[Peregrine]

^^^ you should suggest a specific restaurant, whatever is trendy at the moment. Check Yelp to see what all the Asian girls are reviewing.

I have it on lock. Most of my friends (sadly) work "in the industry". I'll find some stupid spot to take her that will satisfy her insipid need for status competition.

What's the best course of action? Flake on her (i.e. have her show up and not show)? Dine and dash? Make her pay? Treat her horribly?

If your friends work in the industry, take her to one of their places. Problem solved.

I'm with j r - there won't be a five star wanted level for dashing on a bill. And I wouldn't even consider it immoral as one of the customers (her) is still there. If they want to collect, they can collect it from her.

 

[TheMan]

Here's a link to her OKC Profile: http://ht.ly/q8COR

I don't have an OKC account so I can't see if it's still active.

Google Cache gives this: http://webcache.googleusercontent.com/search?q=cache:21F3Rgdxz5QJ:www.okcupid.com/profile/Metildaasaurus%3Fcf%3Dregular+&cd=1&hl=en&ct=clnk

its been pulled

 

[Donnington93]

Facebook profile

Radio interview

 

[Dr. Howard]

Facebook profile

Radio interview

haha! that is the sister station to the program I mentioned above. Looks like they picked it up. Also, it seems like her game is up as she is saying that she can't get onto dating sites anymore or that her accounts get deactivated...she has no idea why?

Well I can tell you why, the dudes who you dinner whored are obviously still on these sites and report your profile the minute they see your picture.

 

[Greek kamaki]

It is weird that some guys pay just for female company. I do not know if she chooses Jews cause of them being wealthy or cause of them having principles.

 

[AnonymousBosch]

She's still at it. As I predicted earlier in this thread, her narcissism means she's incapable of being shamed:

This just in from the brilliant minds & deepest darkest depths of Reddit (where one only discusses the moral implications of throwing dog food on men for pleasure & dominatrix jobs) I give you the plan of the century, “I’d totally leave her with the bill! #genius.” I must say, just when I doubted your creditability & intelligence the minds perpetrating the endless jargon on Reddit came up with this winning plan. Good job guys! You keep on doing that thing you do where you go on a really long nerdy tangent and draw really exciting insightful conclusions, like “Yes I think we can all agree now Toronto would be considered a small city”. Now back to something a tad more gripping my life…

Serial Dater

I'm sure she'll get a book deal out of this.

 

[Nemausus]

Some guy took her to the Mandarin (all you can eat Chinese buffet) and I think she's implying that she banged him afterwards.

http://restauranttipsfromaserialdater.tumblr.com/post/65358428726/the-mandarin

My date at the mandarin summed up? A meal well wasted.
The best thing I ate? A shapeless dumpling…well speaking of shape my date had some & for all of you with your minds in the gutter, Yes, I am talking about the shape of his cock…lets just say I left the mandarin on the hungry side.

This girl is nuts and a narcissist, no doubt.

Still this is turning into a bit of a case study in game.

Consider:

• The guy who doesn't take her to a classy restaurant gets laid
• She complains about a guy helping her to into her seat and opening a door for her (I though girls like chivalry!?)
• Her vagina tingled when another guy called her out on her shit: Link
• This whole thing an overall eye-opener for guys who put girls on pedestals: Girls are not the sweet little innocent creatures we were led to believe. Canadian girls are just as bad as any too. As a Canadian male, it's painful to admit, but sadly I've come to the realization that they're all the same.

 

[PhilE]

Back to the subject at hand, this girl isn't really even that attractive. Don't get me wrong, I'd sleep with her if it required minimal effort, but she's hardly smoking hot.

It's pathetic that enough guys let themselves be taken advantage of. The funny thing is, when men use women for anything, it's terrible!!! but when women use men, it's perfectly okay. Such a hypocritical view that I can't even fathom how one would justify it.

Did you know average, or slightly above average, women get hit on more than hotter women. Average, or slightly above average men, hit on these women because they think they are on the same level so they feel confident in going after her versus a hotter woman which they might feel is out of their league. And attractive, or upper echelon, men see these women as easy pickings and believe their added value of attraction will be enough DHV to fuck quickly. Even though these women have a perception about their place in the beauty totem pole, their hamster convinces them that the "quantity" of suitors actually gives them more value....and they act accordingly

I'd certainly never write a girl off as a long term prospect because of her race/ethnicity. I can see how I'm very much an exception, though, and understand that many will write me off because of mine. Kind of wish that weren't the case and more people generally had the attitude that myself and my family possess with regard to mixing, but it is what it is.

Best to just make the most of it, accept how you're perceived (and that you can't change it) and get your touches in.

I was having a conversation with my friend from Nigeria. He makes about 120k per year, he's only 26 but he told me that some days he feels upset at the way the world is. And with him being in the top 2% of men his age in the country he don't feel like he's treated like it. He was saying how he looks at women like a beautiful buffet and would love to partake and every exotic food it is to try. He feels as though his dark complexion is like someone closing part of the buffet off for him. And he hates the fact that when attempting to date inter-racially he has to visually show through cars and/or jewelry (lifestyle) to get the same girl that a guy who makes barely above minimum wage can get under no other guise except that he is the same race as her.

but back to the original post

I met back up with a girl I dated for a little bit, and she shocked me and told me: "I owe you some pussy" ...and I was confused, and she said "we went out 4 times and I felt bad when we stopped talking, I felt like you didnt get what you wanted out of interaction" I Played it cool and thought this was an opportunity to fuck, but then she tells me that she is married and faithful. :huh:

The 4 dates wasnt much money, it was a movie date, a dinner date (i used groupon), A sushi lunch date which I didnt eat anything and she came over we went to the market and I cooked.

I asked what was the point of telling me....she said she didnt know....she just wanted me to know that she did think about it. And I thought about why we stopped talking and it was because she would snap every time I didnt pick up my phone. I run a business, in addition to dating other women, so I told her that and we fell out after that. But my thinking was she would shit test me and when i responded in kind she would go cold...so i said fuck it finally.

When this happened this CONVINCED me to be merciless on women.... they do things with intention.....and sometimes malice.

 

[Parlay44]

She'd get no love here. We don't do dinner dates here at RVF. Post-bang? Maybe.

 

[Saladin]

Vice wrote a critical piece on her-

http://www.vice.com/en_ca/read/why-should-we-care-about-a-blogger-who-tricks-men-into-dinner-dates?

 

[rudebwoy]

I would hardly say she has game, she was picking weak targets on dating websites.

I could go and get weak targets (fat chicks, old chicks), date them and have them buy me stuff.

That doesn't mean my game is strong.