DetlefMourning
Woodpecker
OkStudies said:^ So if the woman had no issues, player's would not pump and dump her? Is that logic correct?
That's what being a player *is* dude. A player's job is to get pussy from as many women as possible. She is a female player. She has game.
What I'm saying is if you're a player, you are not morally superior to her.
If a woman sleeps with a guy within the first 2-3 dates when she doesn't know him that well and has not secured any kind of commitment to date exclusively, she's taking her chances that he'll stick around. The same way a beta schlub is taking a chance that wining and dining a chick pre-bang will pay off with her sliding up and down his dick. Sometimes it does, a lot of times it doesn't. In my beta white knight days, I used to think pumping and dumping was a bad thing to do to a chick, but I don't see it that way anymore. If a chick opens up her legs to me without trying to secure me in some sort of commitment, she's taking a risk that I'll stick around. I haven't promised her anything except a good thorough deep dicking.
I think it's wrong to promise things you don't have any intention of delivering...but how many true players are pulling that kind of bait and switch of "Yeah, I want you to be my girlfriend, I'm not dating anybody else, I'm not fucking anybody else, I want what we have to go somewhere" and then pull the rug out from underneath? Most players don't have to resort to that kind of trickery. Chicks will take their chances with alpha cad types. And usually if they do get pumped and dumped, it's because they're unbearable to be around due to personality deficiencies, or maybe the guy is dumpster diving with a 4 or below. Chicks essentially pump and dump themselves with either their terrible personalities or not being able to maintain minimum standards of attractiveness. I think a chick that works out and eats right and takes care of her body can't really go below the level of a 5. A hot body and a butterface is pretty much a 5.