I'm curious about the female psychology of cheating on your partner. Is infidelity something that is wired in their brain, and if so, should they be shamed for it and deemed sluts? It's kind of the same as if overeating is hard-wired, should the fat people be blamed for succumbing to their urges. (To an extent, I think.)
For the past 6 months I've regularly banged this 18yo girl who apparently still has a boyfriend. I had no idea. We had a single non-sex coffee date, and she first let me know when I was about to stick it in. I guess it's the female coping mechanism for relieving the guilt of feeling like slut and having the guy take the responsibility.
Anyway, the thing is she's the sweetest girl I know and hasn't thrown a single shit test. If you saw her on the street she's the last girl you'd think would fuck someone behind her boyfriend's back. (You'd know what I mean if I posted a picture of her. Alas, I'm afraid soon enough they'll come up with a Facebook app that will crawl your pics on the Internet.) I've only been able to gather the obvious — that her boyfriend is a beta chump completely unable to light up her feminine side. Maybe first time in her life she's met someone who knows how to push her buttons in a way that makes her feel like a woman. I see myself bringing a huge amount of value in her life and I'm indifferent to the fact that she's being unfaitful. I don't see her as a slut anymore than I see women in general, just seems to be the way they're wired.