I was really consider going to Africa to look for a wife. I made a dating profile there and was pretty appalled. Many women ask for money. The amount of whores was more than anywhere I’ve tried looking.I am African, ex girl friend also African, she was 28, a virgin and a feminist. Note: i disflowered her.
We broke up because of ideological differences, she was a liberal, who believed in freedom for all without consequences, i, on the other hand believe in conservatism. We never agreed on anything when it comes to child training,building a family, covid 19, we disagreed on just everything even the bible, she believes women were discriminated against in the bible, i had to showed her how male children were killed by Pharoah and Herod just to secured their kingdom, at the end, she initiated the breakup because of our differences and we parted ways.
I came to realise that when a woman is deep in IDEALISM and ideology, it is hard to change her no matter what you do.
My ex sees everything as a battle between male and female, everything becomes an ego trip, to the extent we start playing a game of power, sometimes, i thought i was competing with another man, i had to tell her that i needed a feminine woman not a feminist.
I believe women have been corrupted by social media and feminism, most of their role model aren't upright women but celebrity figures who are also from dysfunctional homes.
Most of the women in my country are into prostitution especially those who live in the big cities, those who are feminists, want the equality but not the responsibility, trying to create a relationship with them is a waste of time.
Have i given up on women? - yes
Presently, i have decided to focus more on myself and business rather than spend my energy looking for a relationship.
I’ve tried to be friends with some of the more conservative ones. Even they asked for money sooner or later.
I guess it’s part of African culture. Women just message men and ask “Can I have $40?”
Honestly I’m not sure if this direct ask for cash was better or worse than Latin culture where many women still want money but don’t ask. Just create endless bullshit until you offer.
In Africa are the women happy and feminine when you give them want they want? Or are they still indifferent and drama?
You mentioned only the one girl. Are they pretty much all like that in the cities now?
Some girls I talked to said they got money from multiple men. Which I assumed meant they were sleeping with all of them.
This was in a big city. Maybe rural areas are still not corrupted.
I don’t know if you can blame that on feminism. I talked to people who were in Africa decades ago and said whorishness was rampant.
Just seems to be part of the overall culture. Feminism may make it worse though.