The dating market is brutal for guys today. But when men are faced with challenges a lot of men will step up. Thus we are seeing an army of men who are starting to lift, eat clean, live frugally etc to increase their sexual market value. Meanwhile women are playing the dating game on easy mode and don’t face this pressure. Thus we are seeing a lot of obese women and very few healthy women per healthy man. Ok, there are some women who realize this, who do hip thrusts at the gym for hours every week to get attention of the top 5% men. Mostly Russian women.
I answered AwakenedApe above and think yours is similar but slightly different.Giving up on women unless you are chasing the top 1% glory seems irrational.
At least play YOUR odds.