You seem to labour under the impression that looks are as important for women as they are for men. That's not the case. Yup, I have all my hair, but that's irrelevant. I could be bald and score 20 somethings. I'm well aware that there are guys that look better than I do, taller, younger, etc, however, given the abundance of good looking young women that would not really be a problem. Hypergamy exists for a reason.For all the hard time we give women for being disloyal and blowing up marriages when the tingles stop we never give attention to guys like you who would do the same exact thing.
Good on you that you don't live in Fatmerica so at least you got that going for you.
However, you really need a reality check on the fact that no attractive 23 year old girl is going to be impressed by the fact that "you look younger for your age". I mean how young do you think you look? You might have protected your facial skin from the sun so now you don't look like a baked potato and you train, got all your hair still? You realize that every guy above 15 knows he has to hit the gym hard to compete so you have 18 year old tall guys that look like gods walking everywhere now?
The reality check that you need is that for every attractive 23 yo girl IN THE WESTERN HEMISPHERE, a guy above 30 is nothing but a walking wallet to be shat on and played games with. You are out of your depth with any attractive 23 yo girl you think you can attract for a girlfriend, as now they are clued in on the immense social capital their slit gives them online and in real life. Has she got an instagram?(pfft, of course she does!) Great, she has a millionaire from somewhere 7000 miles away offering her a dubai vacation.
Face the facts - you got your wife at 19(aka the dream of the large majority of men) and she gave you 20 years of her life and 2 kids and by the sound of it not a significant amount of drama for those 20 years and you say she is still mountable. Congratulations you won at life basically.
You also labour under the false impression that I play in the Western Hemisphere. I play in South-east Asia.
If this is winning in life I don't want to know what losing looks like. Visiting mother-in-law sitting at the breakfast table burping incessantly due to a stomach virus she got from the 4 year old, 41 year old wife chattering non-stop to her about child illnesses.
If you're trying to sell me paradise, I can assure you this is not it. Having a wife and children is not the dream it is made out to be.