That sounds boring. Why don't you say what you have in mind? This sounds like a conversation you think you should have but not one you want. Ask her about spicy topics, say something outrageous without caring for the outcome. Similar as you'd talk to a man but not as vulgar. For example, there was a girl who wore a t-shirt of her former university (International Anthropological Institute). Then I said to her: "Ah, you went to the International Self-Castration Institute". Do you think she got offended? Maybe. But she carried on the conversation with banter back and forth. Sure, there are women who don't play along or don't share your views, but they are not worth your time.I'm noticing that when I'm out on the town and I talk to a girl, I get very few questions from them regarding myself when I make a statement. For example, I make an opening remark about the coffee shop we're in. She comments on my remark...I comment back...and this goes on until the thread exhausts itself.
I then ask something personal about her. Are you here for work/What do you do...etc. She answers me...I make a comment...she replies back to my comment. Yada yada until thread ends.