Sounds good; but maybe skip the deception. (And taking up an artistic or musical hobby FOR REAL might enhance your inner life, as well as appeal to women.)You are still a boy, and the average teen female has probably more game than you.
Attractive women at your age are looking for the fun guys. Artists, bikers, world travelers and whatnot. You give off a very serious vibe, which is something that women your age do not appreciate. If I were you, I would pretend I was an artist of some sorts, and never mentioned my boring yet stable life plans. The truth is, that the west does not allow a young man to raise a family in a single earner scenario. Get over it, and adjust to the current times.
You sound too serious for your age. And this is coming from an introverted Computer Engineering major.