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<blockquote data-quote="KiwiInBudapest" data-source="post: 1391951" data-attributes="member: 19108">I can't tell you how much this sounds exactly like my ex reading this thread. Same story - a trip with her friend and then a month later she had a meltdown just out of a sudden.I would advice to just to cut her off and prepare yourself mentally to let her go and see it as your own shit test on her; a screening process. She has let you down, shown disloyalty and broke the trust you had to her, so unless she comes back crawling on her knees and promise for a second chance and to make up for it, you should not bother.In the unlikely case that she does that, fine, just write down a note and see what happens in the future. Otherwise I've had the same experience as andy dufresen, that after every breakup, the next one has always been better, younger and nicer if you just keep your shit together and make sure you make yourself more attractive and improve in different areas of your live.With that said I can really relate to how it felt like a betrayal, that took me months to process. You've been so close to someone for a long time and then that suddenly comes out and in just a few days your reality has made a 180. But a better woman is out there.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="KiwiInBudapest, post: 1391951, member: 19108"] I can't tell you how much this sounds exactly like my ex reading this thread. Same story - a trip with her friend and then a month later she had a meltdown just out of a sudden. I would advice to just to cut her off and prepare yourself mentally to let her go and see it as your own shit test on her; a screening process. She has let you down, shown disloyalty and broke the trust you had to her, so unless she comes back crawling on her knees and promise for a second chance and to make up for it, you should not bother. In the unlikely case that she does that, fine, just write down a note and see what happens in the future. Otherwise I've had the same experience as andy dufresen, that after every breakup, the next one has always been better, younger and nicer if you just keep your shit together and make sure you make yourself more attractive and improve in different areas of your live. With that said I can really relate to how it felt like a betrayal, that took me months to process. You've been so close to someone for a long time and then that suddenly comes out and in just a few days your reality has made a 180. But a better woman is out there. [/QUOTE]

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