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<blockquote data-quote="Pointy Elbows" data-source="post: 1505764" data-attributes="member: 21382">Mr. Bigglesworth, the pain is real and you are not alone.&nbsp; Much as you don't like it, this woman was not yours and was not meant for you.&nbsp; The evidence is posted for public consumption on social media.&nbsp; Honestly, she's spiking the football on your chest.&nbsp; It is not easy, I know from personal experience. You may be suffering &quot;oneitis.&quot;&nbsp; As in, &quot;she's the only one for me.&quot; By evidence, this is not the case, and it likely never was.&nbsp; Take it from a man that spent decades pursuing his wife in this fashion, doubling down on relationship investment to always find a lesser-interested counter-party.Now be a man.&nbsp; Go no contact.&nbsp; Stay out of the bottle and drugs.&nbsp; Get in the gym.&nbsp; Get your spiritual house in order.&nbsp; Go make some dough.&nbsp; As others have said, you may even find much better prospects.&nbsp; If not, you at least know the truth now.&nbsp; You are free to pursue a good life without her. The best solution always involves good living.&nbsp; So have a good life.&nbsp; My best wishes to you.&nbsp; You can heal, so don't lose faith.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Pointy Elbows, post: 1505764, member: 21382"] Mr. Bigglesworth, the pain is real and you are not alone. Much as you don't like it, this woman was not yours and was not meant for you. The evidence is posted for public consumption on social media. Honestly, she's spiking the football on your chest. It is not easy, I know from personal experience. You may be suffering "oneitis." As in, "she's the only one for me." By evidence, this is not the case, and it likely never was. Take it from a man that spent decades pursuing his wife in this fashion, doubling down on relationship investment to always find a lesser-interested counter-party. Now be a man. Go no contact. Stay out of the bottle and drugs. Get in the gym. Get your spiritual house in order. Go make some dough. As others have said, you may even find much better prospects. If not, you at least know the truth now. You are free to pursue a good life without her. The best solution always involves good living. So have a good life. My best wishes to you. You can heal, so don't lose faith. [/QUOTE]

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