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<blockquote data-quote="Max Roscoe" data-source="post: 1505777" data-attributes="member: 17845">Some good advice here all around but I have to wonder [USER=17682]@andy dufresne[/USER] does the girl EVER come running back?&nbsp; Not in my experience.And yes, your best years are definitely ahead of you (didn't happen until after 30 for me, as several friends told me it would).But whoever said she will regret this later... well you can tell yourself if it makes you feel better.&nbsp; But I've seen very little evidence of women ever regretting ANYTHING.&nbsp; Regret requires having agency and understanding that actions have consequences.&nbsp; But maybe we are getting too much into the old PUA stuff here.You didn't mention much about faith.&nbsp; If it's a secular relationship, those are easy come easy go.&nbsp; I'm sure you have strong feels, heck I still have some for a girl from over a year ago, but the reality is without a strong faith foundation, it's really just luck that any secular relationship continues one more day.&nbsp; You might be in for several months of sadness, but in the long run this is turning out best for you (either she is a bad prospect and you never hear from her again, or somehow this makes you a stronger couple).</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Max Roscoe, post: 1505777, member: 17845"] Some good advice here all around but I have to wonder [USER=17682]@andy dufresne[/USER] does the girl EVER come running back? Not in my experience. And yes, your best years are definitely ahead of you (didn't happen until after 30 for me, as several friends told me it would). But whoever said she will regret this later... well you can tell yourself if it makes you feel better. But I've seen very little evidence of women ever regretting ANYTHING. Regret requires having agency and understanding that actions have consequences. But maybe we are getting too much into the old PUA stuff here. You didn't mention much about faith. If it's a secular relationship, those are easy come easy go. I'm sure you have strong feels, heck I still have some for a girl from over a year ago, but the reality is without a strong faith foundation, it's really just luck that any secular relationship continues one more day. You might be in for several months of sadness, but in the long run this is turning out best for you (either she is a bad prospect and you never hear from her again, or somehow this makes you a stronger couple). [/QUOTE]

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