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<blockquote data-quote="Cartographer" data-source="post: 1506013" data-attributes="member: 7611">I'm going through something similar. Love of my life, practically engaged, didn't work out, can't stop saying &quot;I can't believe it&quot; under my breath.I can't not think about how angry I am and how messed up it is. But I don't have to let my mood determine my attitude.If you're up for trying anything I'd suggest listening to the sappiest love songs that make you think of her for as long as you can stand while looking at your face in the mirror. If it doesn't look like the face of the man you want to be then force it back into what it should look like.Also, don't murmur against God. Little exasperations under your breath, head shaking and physical motions that show emotional pain are your enemy. Make your body and face look normal and you'll influence your behavior. Change your behavior and you'll change your mentality.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Cartographer, post: 1506013, member: 7611"] I'm going through something similar. Love of my life, practically engaged, didn't work out, can't stop saying "I can't believe it" under my breath. I can't not think about how angry I am and how messed up it is. But I don't have to let my mood determine my attitude. If you're up for trying anything I'd suggest listening to the sappiest love songs that make you think of her for as long as you can stand while looking at your face in the mirror. If it doesn't look like the face of the man you want to be then force it back into what it should look like. Also, don't murmur against God. Little exasperations under your breath, head shaking and physical motions that show emotional pain are your enemy. Make your body and face look normal and you'll influence your behavior. Change your behavior and you'll change your mentality. [/QUOTE]

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