MorphineBliss said:
You're tripping man. Her students love her. I'm sure her students all subscribed to her twitter feed long time ago.
Go try dating a good looking teacher. Her students will start harrassing you on facebook. Boys fawn over them, girls want to be like her. Come on, the students think she's cool. Young impressionable adults. It's the parents who are probably not too pleased. Respect in a teacher-student relationship is overrated. Admiration is the key element.
All this shit about teachers being held to higher standards. What a load of tosh. Teaching is a shit gig, the money is poor, the kids are a nightmare. Upside is the amount of vacation. You living in the real world yet? Quoting princiles of law? This is precisely why kids are messed up, parents think up-bringing is up to the teachers. A teacher talks to the individual child less than 60 seconds a day. You're telling me, as a teacher of say math, you feel directly responsible for a childs upbringing and who they turn out to be?
This thread perfectly illustrates all of todays contradictions in American society: 1. Ooh our kids and schools are holy precious little heavens sent gifts. But why the fuck why do they go around shooting each other? 2. Let me do whatever I want, free country and all, american dream blabla <-> gotta act like a puralist church goer infront of my employers though, image is everything and I best have a phoney one. 3. The immense schadenfreude at the person who is falling from grace, kicking someone when they're down (as seen most recently with the CIA director).
Look boys, if you expect a 23 year old to act responsibly, "take care of your children while you work", raise them, not upload silly pictures to the internet or party then... heck, you shouldn't have let her be raised by a 23 year old herself. The problem isn't the actual outcome, but the outlandish expectations that have been set. As such you're just constantly being disappointed, as a people, even as an entire nation.
Seeing as you've brought up the nationality thing, I'm British, like yourself.
I have four family members and a number of friends who work as teachers or in other positions in schools. You simply don't know what you're talking about if you think this reaction is American - the exact same thing would happen here.
With that out of the way, some other points:
1. I'm sure the kids do love her: Because she's a lazy law-breaker in a position of authority who is convincing the kids they are going to also be able to get a free ride through life.
2. I've dated/known young teachers: The fact htat they get attention from boys at an age where they'd fuck anything with a hole has nothing to do with how professional they are at their job. Furthermore, a trashy person is a trashy person, regardless of their profession. I wouldn't date this woman, because she's trashy.
There's no hypocrisy in pointing that out.
3. Teaching is not a terrible job. Low paying? Yes. Good hours? Yes. Job security? Yes. Massive holidays? Yes. Low stress levels? Yes.
Seriously, anyone who complains about the nuts and bolts of teaching needs to go into a field where lots of money or their health is on the line. You say, "living in the real world" about how bad being a teacher is, but they have a safer, better paid and less stress job than entry level firefighters, police and even new army enlistees.
4. Bringing up is partly to do with teachers: You can't say it isn't. It's mandatory for kids to be in education, therefore, they are going to have a teacher. When you have to let your kids be under the care of a person for 6 hours a day, you then can't say, "Well, this kid shouldn't be influenced in any way by who we give them." It's a ridiculous argument and doesn't deserve thinking about. Even if it did merit thought philosophically, it isn't true in a legal sense anyway.
5. Higher standards for teachers? I'm not sure about anyone else in this thread, but I don't see a higher standard here: I would sack someone who was a liability to my company's reputation, and I don't run a school.
6. It isn't an invasion of privacy because the information has been made public domain, in the same way that if a celebrity snorts coke in a public place and it gets photographed, it isn't defamation. If you want to act like an idiot where you can get called on it, then it's your own fault. I'm not a hypocrite, I understand the risks of this which is why I don't do stupid things.
7. Yes, I expect a 23 year old to behave responsibly. When I was 23, I behaved responsibly. As most 23 year olds aren't getting fired for smoking marijunana and publicly broadcasting their vices, I assume that most 23 year olds are able to behave appropriately. Therefore, it isn't a stretch to say this girl should have done what everyone else seems to find easy.