Will your wife consider leaving her job to keep him at home? Can you relocate to somewhere with a preschool not requiring masks all day? Or perhaps some sort of small, informal daycare run by some mother?I'm looking into. My oldest is 3 and he'll be enrolled in pre-school for the first time next month. And it appears thus far, the priority of the school is to ensure all 3 yr olds wear a diaper on their face for 6 hours each day.
We have made a point to never put a mask on either our children. They have never worn one. My 3 yr old is a late talker, still under 500 words but understands two languages, can write two alphabets and count to 100 so I'm not overly concerned. He actually can point to all 50 states on a map. But given his delayed speech I do have a concern wearing a mask will do more harm than good. Watching pronunciation and expression and that age is very important.
Most adults can't wear a mask for 6 hours. My wife wore one on her flight to Europe last month and it was unbearable. It's child abuse to force kids to wear a mask to what will amount to 30 hours per week. And you know these same communists running these schools don't wear them in the accounting office.