I've only had one girl in my life for the past couple months, and she's away for the holidays, along with most of my friends. My mother and father are elderly which is part of the reason I'm back in New England, but for the most part nobody else is around right now.
It's been very peaceful and relaxing, and I'm getting a bunch of work done.
I drank too often this year, and I'm not going to use the holidays as an excuse. The unfortunate truth is I seemed to convince myself for much of this year that since I met a couple girls who ended up being "regulars" that I had this whole game thing on lock, and I could slack off. Maybe I needed a breather - I was hitting online dating hard for the better part of a year and while I got some nice bangs out of it I'll admit it was hard to keep up the enthusiasm. I haven't messed with those apps seriously in months; I think the last iDate I went on was in late September.
I'm busier now with work and family and just don't have the time for it.
I feel a bit out of shape mentally and definitely physically at the moment. I'm not unhappy with the girl I'm dating semi-monogamously at all, this is definitely a "me" thing.
I'm trying to get more physical activity by doing some early-morning jogs. It's a little warmer here than in Rocky IV, but this tune is great for the playlist: