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How can women possibly claim to have superior "emotional intelligence" to men?
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<blockquote data-quote="Timothy Crow" data-source="post: 1353445" data-attributes="member: 18341"><p>Yep, you are right and at my age I have pretty much seen it all. I have been married three times, long term, on my third. I have learned many things about women. The emotional response game, button pushing is a favorite of women, learn it, see it, counter it. I have learned that many husbands or just men will not respond to a woman's conversation or talk, this is not because they are uninterested, though that could be the case, but because it always leads to a bad place. Talking to women is like playing chess, you need to be several moves ahead, you need to know that whatever you respond with can lead to some other door being opened, one you would rather not open. Don't just respond even if you think it is a correct or truthful response, think, what will that do? Where will that lead? Anything you say can and will be used against you.</p><p></p><p>My first wife was a master, I learned well. Talk about button pushing, boy howdy, she would slam both hands repeatedly on the keyboard until you blew a fuse. My second wife, thought she liked me because I was intelligent, turns out that was a bad thing. She was used to dumb guys that she could manipulate and it wouldn't work on me, learned from her some things but I was getting to a certain place, after her I had no intention of ever being in a relationship again. My third and present wife, she is so sweet, not so smart but a very good heart. She tried at first with games but gave up, I saw them coming before they even entered her mind. </p><p></p><p>Yeah, women think they can read you and sometimes they can but that is only because most of their readings are on the same kind of person, the men that they draw into their lives. Doesn't always work though. I had some woman read me in front of my wife, telling her all that was going through my mind, nothing good mind you. The funny thing and I did laugh out loud was, I wasn't thinking anything, which is common for me. I was listening to birds singing and enjoying the breeze on my face.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Timothy Crow, post: 1353445, member: 18341"] Yep, you are right and at my age I have pretty much seen it all. I have been married three times, long term, on my third. I have learned many things about women. The emotional response game, button pushing is a favorite of women, learn it, see it, counter it. I have learned that many husbands or just men will not respond to a woman's conversation or talk, this is not because they are uninterested, though that could be the case, but because it always leads to a bad place. Talking to women is like playing chess, you need to be several moves ahead, you need to know that whatever you respond with can lead to some other door being opened, one you would rather not open. Don't just respond even if you think it is a correct or truthful response, think, what will that do? Where will that lead? Anything you say can and will be used against you. My first wife was a master, I learned well. Talk about button pushing, boy howdy, she would slam both hands repeatedly on the keyboard until you blew a fuse. My second wife, thought she liked me because I was intelligent, turns out that was a bad thing. She was used to dumb guys that she could manipulate and it wouldn't work on me, learned from her some things but I was getting to a certain place, after her I had no intention of ever being in a relationship again. My third and present wife, she is so sweet, not so smart but a very good heart. She tried at first with games but gave up, I saw them coming before they even entered her mind. Yeah, women think they can read you and sometimes they can but that is only because most of their readings are on the same kind of person, the men that they draw into their lives. Doesn't always work though. I had some woman read me in front of my wife, telling her all that was going through my mind, nothing good mind you. The funny thing and I did laugh out loud was, I wasn't thinking anything, which is common for me. I was listening to birds singing and enjoying the breeze on my face. [/QUOTE]
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