How Many Women do You Think Your Dad Slept With?

[Muk]

Yeah, my dad's a hardcore Christian now and won't talk about any of that stuff. Too bad, I could have probably gotten some sound advice otherwise. I found a picture of him next to a big ass pot plant once and confronted him about it. He just gave me a shit eating grin and said something like, "Yeah that was a long time ago."

same here... he's a hardcore Muslim now... wouldn't tell me anything until about a month ago... he used to party doing coke and and slaying Bitches while stationed in Germany... couldn't get much for details, though... it's odd because he's like priestly now...

 

[MidniteSpecial]

Papa was a rolling stone.

 

[Virtus]

lets see. a narcissistic romantic lead movie star for over 20 years with 100+ movies

idk

5?

 

[Excelsior]

My father was a sprinter. He was able to leave the Caribbean on an scholarship, which is how he got to the USA. He also was a wide receiver in college.

My father was, in many ways, the prototypical "good black man" that a lot of black women are complaining about not being able to find. He was athletic (again, sports scholarship), highly educated (PhD at Northwestern), and somewhat well-off (had reasonably high administrative positions at major universities in the USA). He indulged in a myriad of hobbies that typically mark the adventurous, interesting male (was a licensed pilot, had a boat and frequently sailed, rode motorcycles, fixed up old European cars, always drove a Benz, etc).

My mother was absolutely head-over-heels in love with him...and so were all of the other attractive black women. The gender gap in the black community is massive, much bigger than it is with any other ethnic group. Educated black women outnumber their male counterparts by a factor of well over 2-1. Because of this huge imbalance, the highly educated, heterosexual (gay black men get much more common the higher up the academic ladder you go, and they outnumber the black lesbians) black male with a good income is a very rare commodity. There aren't enough to go around for the black women who prefer them, and when you factor in other girls (white, hispanic and asian girls like these men too), things get very competitive.

All of this gave my father a lot of options, and he used them. His status combined with his easygoing, very confident persona ensured that he always had a lot of options. During their short marriage, my mother was consistently fielding calls from women to the house and fighting them off. Eventually, she lost the battle-my father began openly cohabiting with another woman while my mother was pregnant with me, and my mom moved for separation. She left their home and never looked back.

My father had 4 children by three different women. I've never met him or any of my half-siblings. I assume his notch count is well over 20.

 

[Galnuc69]

My father is "the" archetypal provider beta.

Same.
I heard some "family rumors" about him slaying bitches in high school and his first three years on the job, but that was ~25 years ago and forgotten history.

Kind of a similar story with my father. He told me a couple months ago he can't remember the exact number, somewhere in the 70s, but apparently things were a bit hazy from his college and law schools days in NY and LA in the 70s and 80s. But I guess he had mad game back then. Supposedly he used his "ivy league" and "i am in law school" game alot. I guess that is how he got my middle class WASPY mom to stick around. Now he is the typical provider and certainly isn't the head of the household, they are "partners" and he likes to avoid conflict. I am not really mad at him I guess, maybe he is just too old and tired to get into fights with my mom about shit anymore.

I am 22 now, I wish I had the talk with him when I was 14 or 15, maybe I wouldn't have been such a beta with the women in high school and my early college days. But he gave me absolutely no help and never had a heart to heart to me about his younger partying days until a couple months ago after I had already "taken the red pill" and learned game. I don't expect to attain his notch count or particularly desire too(too much time for too little return, gaming girls is just one part of my life, not the whole damn thing).

So yea, my father was very "nice" to me growing up, treated me like a "best friend", but he never passed down his knowledge to me. I had to learn everything on my own, and sometimes, just thinking back to how I used to be with girls even two years ago makes me shudder. That said, in the past few years, between my various run ins with the law and taking the red pill(women, life, politics), we are more honest with each other now, but we aren't "best friends" anymore.

 

[speakeasy]

I doubt by dad had more than several. I'd bet it was 5 tops. Maybe as low as 3. He's not a bad looking guy at all, but he's always been kind of low key, introverted and non-aggressive. A natural temperament I inherited from him and have struggled my whole life to break out of.

 

[BigDaddy]

Fun story:

My aunt (my dad's sister) was a nurse, and while she was in nursing school, my dad ran "hook me up with some of your classmates" game.

When I was about 14, my mom was looking through old photos and found one of her nursing school graduating class.

"See, there's me, and there's your aunt Linda.

(Pointing at different girls in the photo, *beaming with pride*)
Your dad fucked her, her, her, her, her, her and then ended up marrying me."

 

[TheBlackNarwhal]

My dad was in the Marine Corps for 13 years, from 18 to 31. Later into his career I think he became a hardass as he was promoted and had to deal with young Marines and their bullshit. He married my mom in the middle of his career and they divorced three years later. In his deployments to Japan and the Philippines I'm positive he slayed a few of the locals. Hell, my older brother had to tell me my dad had banged some Filipino youngins, but my dad has never personally admitted this to me, just hinting that it was "A good place to visit."

Game recognized, dad.

 

[EasyMoney]

A good family friend spilled the beans to me that my dad cheated on my mom with some hot young starlet slut back when they were freshly married and he was kind of a big deal in show biz. Now that I think about it and look at it from a red pill perspective it makes all the sense in the world. Pre selection from him being married to my mom who was pretty damn cute? Check. Older guy in his mid 30s killing it professionally? Check. Status in his fun/cool industry? Check. It also finally answered the question of why my parents waited 13 years to have me.

My dad was always a saint in my eyes growing up. I thought he could do no wrong. I always saw him as a moral rock in an otherwise worthless and shitty world. That revelation kind of fucked with my head at first, but didn't make me that angry. I was pretty blue pill at the time and felt a little angry but even with a blue pill mentality it didn't upset me all that much. He still doesn't know that I know about it - and I wanna keep it that way. It's not my issue to be upset about something that happened way before I was born that isn't my personal business. Also, with a red pill mentality, how can I blame him ya know?

Moral of the story: all the institution of marriage does is place chains on the male sexual id. Innate sexual proclivity outweighs bullshit blue pill conditioning every time.

 

[The Pirate]

My father was on a boat sailing around the world as a young man. I am 100% sure he made his debut in a whorehouse.
When getting married he was a sales agent for a famous hair product brand, and it included heavy partying with colleagues. To put it simple, he was a player.

 

[billy]

My dad was legendary for being able to pick up girls from bus stops the street anywhere. He went. He used to rock around in a rolls Royce back when they were pretty rare and implied status and was was regularly seen driving away from nightclubs with a car full of girls. He bought a modelling agency once just so he could hand his card out to hot girls.

 

[DeusLuxMeaEst]

I voted 6 to 20, could be more but definitely not less.

 

[bojangles]

1 for sure.

 

[The Fantasist]

Over 100.

My dad was the biggest player I have met. Even now in his late 60's he's out in Indonesia living on an island doped up to the eye balls on Viagra and fucking 20 year olds. ( just had a baby with one of them the silly fucker ). I can remember being in pubs with him when I was growing up and him having two girls on his arm and sticking his tongue down each of their throats. My poor old mum came to accept that he was a narcissistic cunt but women loved that about him, he gave zero fucks about anyone except himself. I came a distant third behind women and booze. An example: We all went on holiday to the Bahamas when I was 10 and he fucked the woman in the villa next to us in view ( so to speak ) of everyone. My mum was fucking daft to put up with it but eventually at aged 15 half way through my GCSE's she could take his womanising and constant brawling in pubs no more and we jumped in the family car and hid out in some shit hole in North Wales for a week until he had packed and left.

I grew up resenting him for being such a cunt to me and my mum but I also always admired his utter self absorption and skills with women. I wish in some ways I could be more like that. He tried teaching me stuff when we re-connected when I was 23 but his ways did not come easy to me. Looking at it now I can say what made him successful was he always led every interaction with people, he'd be the loudest or the guy in the middle of the bar telling the story surrounded by listeners, he had a powerful aura that did not yield, ever, women found that attractive. He was also good looking which helped a great deal. Long before I read pick up books he told me tips about how to open groups of women by not ignoring the ugliest in the group or else she would cock block you. Things like that. He described it all in other words but the message was there, he knew his way around 'split asses' as he calls women.

Now I still resent him but I admire him too. He has lived a life totally on his own conditions not bowing down to anyone else's whims or wants. He's had more pussy than anyone I know but I think deep down he was insecure and trying to prove something. He came from a rough town near Manchester and was beaten mercilessly by my grandfather as a boy. I think it made him set out as an adult with the desire to prove to the world that he would not be bowed before anyone again. I don't know. He's certainly a rum bugger I'll give him that. I was out in Indonesia with him 2 years back, he's building a bar and it will have whores working in it as waitresses. His life would certainly make an interesting read.

 

[Divorco]

gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

 

[Simple Man]

My dad started dating my mum at 24 and was married at 27.

He was captain of his school and a sports player, but somehow very introverted socially. He probably got a few notches before my mum, I'd guess between 3-5.

They divorced when he was late 30's, (he later confided to me that he cheated on my mum once) he's had at least 5 women that I know of since then so I'd say he's on 10-12

 

[A War You Cannot Win]

A lot. I have a veritable horde of half-siblings I have never met. He got around.

 

[Excelsior]

gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

 

[Samseau]

gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

Gays of all colors do better in school because they don't need to put any effort into acquiring sex. It's one of the biggest reasons women do better too.

Compare that to straight males who need to put in serious time and effort into their sexual market value if they want to score any pussy at all.

Not only do gays get the intelligence of a man, but they get the sexual access of a female. They can't lose in today's society.

 

[soup]

gay you go,

Why? Do you need to participate in anti-intellectual thug culture to get black women? Or do gays simply not fit in, and throw their energy into academic pursuits? I think it outrageous how rap culture glamorizes crime and dismisses school. But I don't see how that would disproportionately affect gays.

Gays simply do better in school that heterosexual black men on average. They have better extracurriculars, better study habits, and more extensive social/community involvement than do your typical straight black men.

I'm not sure precisely why this is, but it is what it is. The higher up the academic ladder you go, the more gays you will see as a percentage of the black male population. At Ivies, they're downright commonplace, and it is no coincidence that the largest black gay centers are in cities with very large concentrations of educated blacks (ex: Atlanta).

You don't absolutely need to be particularly anti-intellectual to get to your typical black woman in the USA, but it helps much more than it might with some other groups of women.

Gays of all colors do better in school because they don't need to put any effort into acquiring sex. It's one of the biggest reasons women do better too.

Compare that to straight males who need to put in serious time and effort into their sexual market value if they want to score any pussy at all.

Not only do gays get the intelligence of a man, but they get the sexual access of a female. They can't lose in today's society.

Most straight men have to do more work in society than anyone else just to be on level playing field.

Also, gay guys have crazy disposable income because they don't have kids.

I think gays have it better than both straight men and women and lesbians as well because they don't have to deal as much crazy emotional shit from dealing with a woman.

It does suck for them that AIDS hit them really hard though.