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<blockquote data-quote="Mike_Key" data-source="post: 1347283" data-attributes="member: 17142"><p>There are a couple other threads similar to this one, if you need more ideas.</p><p></p><p>It matters substantively, largely, critically and crucially. Everything you will encounter can be overcome, but you will have to confront some rough patches and demons, change some behaviors.</p><p></p><p>Women and Men get married and have children. Women have to think in a <em><strong>generational</strong></em> sense. And you, both, have to display the behavior of responsible, stable and mature adults. If you think in a generational sense then your kids will realize early in life that they will get married and <u>they will have kids</u>. It starts early in life.</p><p></p><p>There was mention of a celebrity divorce, those kids will have it rough and will / may end up as strippers or in prison. They will surely be high risk for drug use with all the expendable cash that rich kids have accessible.</p><p></p><p>If a woman has an extensive sexual history or past - she was not <u>learning</u> home-making during those sexual years. She doesn't know how to make a dehydrated boxed meal in the microwave (in college I witnessed this - idiot chicks can't make a box of Potatoes Au Gratin in a microwave). She doesn't know how to change the bed-sheets once a week. Her mom is likely a wreck. Her aunt is likely an idiot. They taught her nothing.</p><p></p><p>Some previously "loose" women marry and assume the husband knows of her past. Or it's simply never mentioned. He often times will not know. The truth will come out in her lack of skills, her lack of character / character flaws or her undisciplined behavior. Women have this survival skill of "<strong>glossing over things</strong>", important things.</p><p></p><p>Also, think of this. How many people do you know on their 2nd marriage? Those "previous married years" are often times "no go zones". Unless you are libertine, where ex-spouses mingle with one another - you can't talk about 15 years of your life which was marriage #1. A once "loose" woman won't be able to talk about her home town, her first boyfriend and her past slut girlfriends. If she does then you have to address the issue of Respect, a wife must respect her husband (found in Scripture).</p><p></p><p>Again, there will be chaos for your kids if there is a divorce. All children of divorce when they become adults <u>"hate"</u> their divorced parents to an extent.</p><p></p><p><em>"Why do I have to travel to 2 different cities, risking my life on the highway, to visit these immature "train-wrecks" of parents? They are selfishly wrapped up in their lives on marriage 1, 2, or 3; never giving my kids (their grandchildren) attention or money, as in $2."</em></p><p></p><p>Yeah, there is definitely a lot to consider. Choose wisely ...</p><p></p><p>John 3:16</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Mike_Key, post: 1347283, member: 17142"] There are a couple other threads similar to this one, if you need more ideas. It matters substantively, largely, critically and crucially. Everything you will encounter can be overcome, but you will have to confront some rough patches and demons, change some behaviors. Women and Men get married and have children. Women have to think in a [I][B]generational[/B][/I] sense. And you, both, have to display the behavior of responsible, stable and mature adults. If you think in a generational sense then your kids will realize early in life that they will get married and [U]they will have kids[/U]. It starts early in life. There was mention of a celebrity divorce, those kids will have it rough and will / may end up as strippers or in prison. They will surely be high risk for drug use with all the expendable cash that rich kids have accessible. If a woman has an extensive sexual history or past - she was not [U]learning[/U] home-making during those sexual years. She doesn't know how to make a dehydrated boxed meal in the microwave (in college I witnessed this - idiot chicks can't make a box of Potatoes Au Gratin in a microwave). She doesn't know how to change the bed-sheets once a week. Her mom is likely a wreck. Her aunt is likely an idiot. They taught her nothing. Some previously "loose" women marry and assume the husband knows of her past. Or it's simply never mentioned. He often times will not know. The truth will come out in her lack of skills, her lack of character / character flaws or her undisciplined behavior. Women have this survival skill of "[B]glossing over things[/B]", important things. Also, think of this. How many people do you know on their 2nd marriage? Those "previous married years" are often times "no go zones". Unless you are libertine, where ex-spouses mingle with one another - you can't talk about 15 years of your life which was marriage #1. A once "loose" woman won't be able to talk about her home town, her first boyfriend and her past slut girlfriends. If she does then you have to address the issue of Respect, a wife must respect her husband (found in Scripture). Again, there will be chaos for your kids if there is a divorce. All children of divorce when they become adults [U]"hate"[/U] their divorced parents to an extent. [I]"Why do I have to travel to 2 different cities, risking my life on the highway, to visit these immature "train-wrecks" of parents? They are selfishly wrapped up in their lives on marriage 1, 2, or 3; never giving my kids (their grandchildren) attention or money, as in $2."[/I] Yeah, there is definitely a lot to consider. Choose wisely ... John 3:16 [/QUOTE]
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