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<blockquote data-quote="Tactician" data-source="post: 1348092" data-attributes="member: 8292">Women getting alpha widowed is a real thing &amp; it takes a long time + a lot of resolve for her to get over it. If she hasn't moved on, then you're probably in the &quot;he'll do for now&quot; camp if you're dating her. Not a place I'd want to be. It sucks because getting alpha widowed usually messes with the most idealistic part of a girl and makes her a bit more jaded &amp; calculative about relationships.Girls who get alpha widowed can be really good on paper. Slim, Christian, thinks feminism is stupid, etc, but they'll put up all kinds of road blocks when dating because they don't actually want to get into a new relationship. They want the old one back. They're basically off the table as they're just going through the motions and aren't ready to go all in.As for the dorky charts, I like them, but only as a broad critique for society, like GDP or a Nation's average SAT scores or something. Not very useful on the personal level.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Tactician, post: 1348092, member: 8292"] Women getting alpha widowed is a real thing & it takes a long time + a lot of resolve for her to get over it. If she hasn't moved on, then you're probably in the "he'll do for now" camp if you're dating her. Not a place I'd want to be. It sucks because getting alpha widowed usually messes with the most idealistic part of a girl and makes her a bit more jaded & calculative about relationships. Girls who get alpha widowed can be really good on paper. Slim, Christian, thinks feminism is stupid, etc, but they'll put up all kinds of road blocks when dating because they don't actually want to get into a new relationship. They want the old one back. They're basically off the table as they're just going through the motions and aren't ready to go all in. As for the dorky charts, I like them, but only as a broad critique for society, like GDP or a Nation's average SAT scores or something. Not very useful on the personal level. [/QUOTE]

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