How to date older rich men, get 20 000 $ / month, while avoiding sex with them
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magicone said:
If there's one thing the SD dating scene will teach the unwitting gent really fast is that women will drop everything to be with you when they really want to. Kind of puts the regular dating scene in a whole new light - all the bullshit venue changes, schedule conflicts, emergencies, etc. really are for the most part utter fabrications.
magicone said:
Nah - in EE and FSU it's commonly known to hire assistants and secretaries "with benefits". You just get a girl that works as your assistant and make it clear that she gets paid more for the occasional blowjobs and sex.
I have even read such ads by girls themselves - they looking for such arrangements actively. In Russia it's even expected with some jobs - they have a term they add on the job ad and everyone knows what else is expected of you.
The girls actually like those kind of arrangements - you get paid way more doing a normal job and often after your shelf-life is done you might have a real job left, all taxes paid, health insurance, pension plan - and you don't feel like being a whore that way. Besides - women find their bosses generally attractive, so the power dynamic is actually different than if it was just a client that came to her apartment. The very same guy she would feel disgust for is seen in a different light, when he commands entire departments and is the boss over many people - she can see him in competent action and not just a simp paying for sex. The situational Alpha status is real - the barkeeper or teacher out of the club or the classroom loses great attraction value for the female hamster.
Zelcorpion said:
Yes, EE/FSU "sponsorship" is very common. Go to Moscow and read the classified section or go on a dating website. In South America it's also expected that bosses get to hook up with their employees. You have to remember that the US is a strange mixture of slutty/everything goes along with puritanical. Just visit Amsterdam or Germany if you want to see how the rest of the world views the world's oldest profession.
Someone posted this movie in the comments section of ROK under the Maltese Falcon article. Watched it last night, and it's a very gut wrenching movie. Makes you want to jump in and punch the protagonist in the face to wake him up and save his soul. It's relevant to this thread as it deals with an older unhappy married man who falls for a seductive and cunning young woman. The woman, and her bad boy boyfriend take the man for a ride and rinse him. The protagonist is your quintessential sex starved lonely nice guy who can't say no, and is oblivious to the underlying schemes of women. The man so desperately wants her love and affection he will do anything for her. The idea of young women rinsing old men is nothing new. More young men need to watch old movies like this that accurately reflect human nature and the real world. Instead of socialist/feminist Disneyland feel good movies.
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Seboist said:
Had a friend who used to do this constantly with a particular porn girl. Also would get "private pictures/shows". He couldn't be helped, he's terrible with money and got off on it for some reason. He's now supporting a girl and buying her shit all the time, this one lives with him and he does get to bang her though. I'm still waiting for it to blow up.
el mechanico said:
He was making around 75k a year before taxes and lived in a really low COL area. So it happens.
Those girls rinsing men are not comparable to PUAs/guys with Game who get sex with little money and no commitment invested, since in those cases women are attracted to them.
In fact the perfect comparison of those rinsing babes is a decrepit fat 80 year old billionaire who walks up to teenage models, promises them marriage, fucks them, shits on them and then reneges on their offer of marriage - in the worst case after having strung them on for years.
You could argue that both are fooled and the illusion of what they might desire is worth it. However we know that it is in fact worth nothing in the end.
In fact the perfect comparison of those rinsing babes is a decrepit fat 80 year old billionaire who walks up to teenage models, promises them marriage, fucks them, shits on them and then reneges on their offer of marriage - in the worst case after having strung them on for years.
You could argue that both are fooled and the illusion of what they might desire is worth it. However we know that it is in fact worth nothing in the end.
20k a month they might as well move to bangkok and hire an entire village of girls (some of whom may be really male) to service them for a month straight with no breaks.
These types of scams have been going on since internet dating became popular. It's so easy for someone to setup a fake account with a model's pictures and ask for money. It's not much different than the Nigerian scams. At the core they are all the same scam: You'll get something great (money or sex) if you give me some money first.
I'm not going to defend these rinsing girls but I didn't see them directly offer sex for money and then back-out after the money was paid. In the documentary it seemed that they always danced around the issue and let the guy believe there was a chance for sex. It's still manipulation for sure, they know exactly what they are doing. But at the same time the guys are letting their little head do all of the thinking. And how many blue-pill guys spend money on dinner, chocolate, gifts all in the hope of winning the girl over. We know better but men in the West have been taught to give things to girls without question.
I'm not going to defend these rinsing girls but I didn't see them directly offer sex for money and then back-out after the money was paid. In the documentary it seemed that they always danced around the issue and let the guy believe there was a chance for sex. It's still manipulation for sure, they know exactly what they are doing. But at the same time the guys are letting their little head do all of the thinking. And how many blue-pill guys spend money on dinner, chocolate, gifts all in the hope of winning the girl over. We know better but men in the West have been taught to give things to girls without question.
Gringuito said:
A year or two back I set up a female profile on one of the sugar daddy sites just to see what volume of guys were on there and how many emails she would get.
I was amazed when some dude from Texas (the girl's profile showed WI) opened up with an offer of $15,000 to come see him.
I had not contacted or even viewed this guy's profile, and the girls profile was pretty brief with no monetary demands. She was hot, but other than that nothing.
Frankly, I was astounded.
And no, I didn't take his money.
Gringuito said:
It's possible but I'm not real sure what angle might be there, other than trafficking. Or fronting for a Dubai Deuce.
I know airline tickets were included but it's been so long ago I don't recall the details. Never corresponded with the guy to clarify anything.
Kind of wish I had, but I'm not one to play that game.
Hotwheels said:
Some guys are stupid enough or desperate in that regard.
15k to come see you, but he is bringing the cash along. Then at the meeting he offers 20k more for sex.
Or it was a fake account where someone impersonated a rich guy - plenty of men do that. Some even write to escort agencies of how many girls they would like to order and add how tall/good-looking they are - as if that matters....
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