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<blockquote data-quote="NotaBene" data-source="post: 1518105" data-attributes="member: 23332">I actually agree.&nbsp; These are multi-generational problems for both men and women.&nbsp; Bad men --&gt; Raise horrible women --&gt; Crappy single mothers ---&gt; Raise bad men.I spent most of my life so far very blue-pilled, and only in the last couple years realized that women have any real problems or tendencies to sin at all.&nbsp; So I tend to over-emphasize because I believe our culture (and even churches) tend to downplay the part of women in these cycles.This is wise.&nbsp; Keep in mind that the burdens wives often feel to keep their houses immaculate often come from *other women*, perceived expectations, and petty comparison rather than actual need or a husband's demands.I wish wives would just ask their husbands:&nbsp; &quot;What do I need to get done today?&quot;&nbsp; I guarantee you that his answer will be a really short list.&nbsp; Everything else is optional!&nbsp; That doesn't mean be a lazy wife, it just means get rid of the resentment that comes from perceived expectations where none actually exist.I really don't mind, it raises some interesting discussions, and that's what we're here for.&nbsp; But yeah, be careful you don't fall of the horse on the other side.&nbsp; Don't become a white knight in your penance <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile&nbsp; &nbsp; :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /></blockquote>

[QUOTE="NotaBene, post: 1518105, member: 23332"] I actually agree. These are multi-generational problems for both men and women. Bad men --> Raise horrible women --> Crappy single mothers ---> Raise bad men. I spent most of my life so far very blue-pilled, and only in the last couple years realized that women have any real problems or tendencies to sin at all. So I tend to over-emphasize because I believe our culture (and even churches) tend to downplay the part of women in these cycles. This is wise. Keep in mind that the burdens wives often feel to keep their houses immaculate often come from *other women*, perceived expectations, and petty comparison rather than actual need or a husband's demands. I wish wives would just ask their husbands: "What do I need to get done today?" I guarantee you that his answer will be a really short list. Everything else is optional! That doesn't mean be a lazy wife, it just means get rid of the resentment that comes from perceived expectations where none actually exist. I really don't mind, it raises some interesting discussions, and that's what we're here for. But yeah, be careful you don't fall of the horse on the other side. Don't become a white knight in your penance :) [/QUOTE]

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