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<blockquote data-quote="get2choppaaa" data-source="post: 1522659" data-attributes="member: 17150">Except for California and a few other commie states... Men really only pay for child support and you split the assets down the middle and collaborative debt is split. Even a Pre-nup doesnt mean nothing will be lost when the assets are divided.&nbsp; As a Judge views a divorce/break up as purely a business transaction unless children are involved... in which case you have to really have a crackhead mom for her to not have custody.&nbsp; In my case, when my exwife left (and kidnnapped the kids for 3 months until I got a judge to straighten that out)&nbsp; she took everything that was paid off (even tried to take my brand new suburban, which I got back once she could&#039;t register it in her name since I had the title... hehe) To this day she makes half of what I make and wanted more to be a nurse than a mother, and&nbsp; threw away a debt free - EZ life because of being &quot;unhappy&quot;. In our case, we both were in lust.&nbsp; I didnt respect her because she was/is an air head, she didnt love me because I wasnt a door mat and had rules, and am pretty type A high strung and a little rough.In short. There is no way to hold a woman accountable for their actions the same way a man gets screwed.&nbsp; But that is the way of the world and something one must accept in negotiation of the dating/courtship/marriage life.&nbsp; Speaking from a VERY VERY long and painful experience on the way not to do it... my advise is always &quot;Chose better and make sure you find a woman who&#039;s pursuing the same faith (hopefully in Jesus Christ) as you are as the most likely way to have a successful and joyous relationship. &quot;There is no real societal pressure to make women accountable the same way men are.&nbsp; Thats just the reality of political expediency in their victimhood status allowing big goverment to regulate/tax/and accrue leverage on society</blockquote>

[QUOTE="get2choppaaa, post: 1522659, member: 17150"] Except for California and a few other commie states... Men really only pay for child support and you split the assets down the middle and collaborative debt is split. Even a Pre-nup doesnt mean nothing will be lost when the assets are divided. As a Judge views a divorce/break up as purely a business transaction unless children are involved... in which case you have to really have a crackhead mom for her to not have custody. In my case, when my exwife left (and kidnnapped the kids for 3 months until I got a judge to straighten that out) she took everything that was paid off (even tried to take my brand new suburban, which I got back once she could't register it in her name since I had the title... hehe) To this day she makes half of what I make and wanted more to be a nurse than a mother, and threw away a debt free - EZ life because of being "unhappy". In our case, we both were in lust. I didnt respect her because she was/is an air head, she didnt love me because I wasnt a door mat and had rules, and am pretty type A high strung and a little rough. In short. There is no way to hold a woman accountable for their actions the same way a man gets screwed. But that is the way of the world and something one must accept in negotiation of the dating/courtship/marriage life. Speaking from a VERY VERY long and painful experience on the way not to do it... my advise is always "Chose better and make sure you find a woman who's pursuing the same faith (hopefully in Jesus Christ) as you are as the most likely way to have a successful and joyous relationship. " There is no real societal pressure to make women accountable the same way men are. Thats just the reality of political expediency in their victimhood status allowing big goverment to regulate/tax/and accrue leverage on society [/QUOTE]

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