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<blockquote data-quote="get2choppaaa" data-source="post: 1522978" data-attributes="member: 17150">Anyone you allow yourself to be vulnerable to can screw you over.&nbsp; Including your family, spouse, freinds ect. You have to learn how and who to trust.Good luck finding someone who would sign some sort of arrangement. Not sure how old you are or your life experience but it&#039;s been my experience that women tend to not appreciate it when you start implying that they might be infidelities&#039;/dishonest ect.Flip the script for a second and if a woman did some equivalent, what would you do?&nbsp; You&#039;d be like &quot;Go pound sand psycho&quot;Like I have said, from experience, you are better off finding a woman who shares your religious convictions and bond whatever those are.When my ex wife and I were dating I was young and altruistic and stupid.&nbsp; I spoiled her. She left and stole all the paid off stuff from my house while she was pregnant within 90 days of getting back from a deployment overseas.&nbsp; I learned that if a woman doesn&#039;t show immense gratitude for the little things you do, they aren&#039;t going to show any gratitude for the MAJOR things you do like provide for them/shelter/protection ect...When I met my now wife, I didn&#039;t have any concerns about being taken advantage of because I actually learned how to communicate and boundaries.&nbsp; Hypothetically she could leave at any time... there is NOTHING you can do if they decide that is the course.&nbsp; Now I know she will never do this because 1. she would have incredible shame since we found the Church together and she wouldn&#039;t be able to look at our priest/church friends again in any serious way without feeling utter shame. 2: raising all the kids who need a male influence would be impossible for her : she cant provide the financial support I can and she knows that 4. I understand what she needs take the role of the husband guiding his family and she understands the role of a woman in the house.&nbsp; When a woman loves you, she really loves you.&nbsp; Once she has lost that feeling of love, she will never respect you again.&nbsp; That&#039;s a woman&#039;s biological nature. There is no way to ever create a legal circumstance that will counter that effectively.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="get2choppaaa, post: 1522978, member: 17150"] Anyone you allow yourself to be vulnerable to can screw you over. Including your family, spouse, freinds ect. You have to learn how and who to trust. Good luck finding someone who would sign some sort of arrangement. Not sure how old you are or your life experience but it's been my experience that women tend to not appreciate it when you start implying that they might be infidelities'/dishonest ect. Flip the script for a second and if a woman did some equivalent, what would you do? You'd be like "Go pound sand psycho" Like I have said, from experience, you are better off finding a woman who shares your religious convictions and bond whatever those are. When my ex wife and I were dating I was young and altruistic and stupid. I spoiled her. She left and stole all the paid off stuff from my house while she was pregnant within 90 days of getting back from a deployment overseas. I learned that if a woman doesn't show immense gratitude for the little things you do, they aren't going to show any gratitude for the MAJOR things you do like provide for them/shelter/protection ect... When I met my now wife, I didn't have any concerns about being taken advantage of because I actually learned how to communicate and boundaries. Hypothetically she could leave at any time... there is NOTHING you can do if they decide that is the course. Now I know she will never do this because 1. she would have incredible shame since we found the Church together and she wouldn't be able to look at our priest/church friends again in any serious way without feeling utter shame. 2: raising all the kids who need a male influence would be impossible for her : she cant provide the financial support I can and she knows that 4. I understand what she needs take the role of the husband guiding his family and she understands the role of a woman in the house. When a woman loves you, she really loves you. Once she has lost that feeling of love, she will never respect you again. That's a woman's biological nature. There is no way to ever create a legal circumstance that will counter that effectively. [/QUOTE]

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