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<blockquote data-quote="get2choppaaa" data-source="post: 1522992" data-attributes="member: 17150">My opinon, and not relationship advise just my observation from a cursory read of your 2 above paragraphs....In relationships its either a &quot;heck yes&quot; or a &quot;heck no&quot; when it comes down to your future with that person.&nbsp; If you are uninterested in marrying her someday then she aint the one for you. If you are going to be unhappy with the money scene the YOU need to find a way to make more, let it go, or find a woman that doesn't make more money than you so that this issue isnt a thing. Most relationship issues are around Money and Children.. but mostly moneyAre you gonna draw up a business contract, bring in a notary, seal it with a blood oath and file it with the courthouse?&nbsp; MAybe you can take her to the &quot;People's Court&quot; and see how that goes.I use the above sarcasm because dude, what is the point of interacting with someone like that? If you are using your example of medical care, why are YOU doing that? If you are loaning her the money, for a specific reason and feel the need to draw that up, then I would get a bank involved otherwise I would just not participate in those sorts of things, or expect that YOU will be on the hook for it,Bro, you are never going to get reimbursed for money spent in courtship. That's how it works.&nbsp; You're the man, you pay for things.&nbsp; You're expected to pay for things. Dont go spending money on stupid stuff and gifts until you're really serious.&nbsp; Thats just part of it man.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="get2choppaaa, post: 1522992, member: 17150"] My opinon, and not relationship advise just my observation from a cursory read of your 2 above paragraphs.... In relationships its either a "heck yes" or a "heck no" when it comes down to your future with that person. If you are uninterested in marrying her someday then she aint the one for you. If you are going to be unhappy with the money scene the YOU need to find a way to make more, let it go, or find a woman that doesn't make more money than you so that this issue isnt a thing. Most relationship issues are around Money and Children.. but mostly money Are you gonna draw up a business contract, bring in a notary, seal it with a blood oath and file it with the courthouse? MAybe you can take her to the "People's Court" and see how that goes. I use the above sarcasm because dude, what is the point of interacting with someone like that? If you are using your example of medical care, why are YOU doing that? If you are loaning her the money, for a specific reason and feel the need to draw that up, then I would get a bank involved otherwise I would just not participate in those sorts of things, or expect that YOU will be on the hook for it, Bro, you are never going to get reimbursed for money spent in courtship. That's how it works. You're the man, you pay for things. You're expected to pay for things. Dont go spending money on stupid stuff and gifts until you're really serious. Thats just part of it man. [/QUOTE]

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