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<blockquote data-quote="get2choppaaa" data-source="post: 1523020" data-attributes="member: 17150">That maybe true, but recognizing it and acting accordingly is going to get you a lot further than trying to scheme about how to get an unenforceable contract arbitrarily created because of your fear of losing money/goodsThis is to me an overall immature approach, and I say that having been put through the ringer on the divorce court side of things... so I have much experience and first hand knowledge. Best advise I can give is: Chose wisely and accept the nature of the men and women&#039;s roles in relationships and dont turn a whore into a housewife and dont use gifts and goods and paying for things as a transactional assessment of what you&#039;re supposed to get from someone.&nbsp; If you want to buy your significant other a gift do so because you want to give.&nbsp; If you want to help them with some financial situation do so.&nbsp; If you want to make it agreed upon that they repay you, fine... but dont expect these sorts of things to be received well or that &quot;equity&quot; of money has anything to do with it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="get2choppaaa, post: 1523020, member: 17150"] That maybe true, but recognizing it and acting accordingly is going to get you a lot further than trying to scheme about how to get an unenforceable contract arbitrarily created because of your fear of losing money/goods This is to me an overall immature approach, and I say that having been put through the ringer on the divorce court side of things... so I have much experience and first hand knowledge. Best advise I can give is: Chose wisely and accept the nature of the men and women's roles in relationships and dont turn a whore into a housewife and dont use gifts and goods and paying for things as a transactional assessment of what you're supposed to get from someone. If you want to buy your significant other a gift do so because you want to give. If you want to help them with some financial situation do so. If you want to make it agreed upon that they repay you, fine... but dont expect these sorts of things to be received well or that "equity" of money has anything to do with it. [/QUOTE]

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