I'm kinda in a some-what similar position as far as "What to do from here." Right now I'm working 2 jobs, between 64-72 hours a week (Lately been more like 72). I'm banking for me, and I think for a good majority of the population at the age of 25. I'm making more than 95% of kids my age that I know who've graduated college. But I'm working like a slave. I have hardly any social life anymore. I do manage to get 2 days off a week, but I've found that I pretty much need one of those days to rest. Luckily I work with some good looking girls and good looking girls constantly come into my work, so I still have a means to meet girls (The uniform I have to wear definitely doesn't help though. I make sure to pop in every once in a while dressed real nice to do something I need to do while I'm off. I get some real nice compliments and IOIs from the girls every time), but definitely still not as easy as before I was working two jobs. The second job I picked up also kinda sucks. I can't stand the girl I work with, and a lot of the people suck as well. But that money is fucking awesome. Money's just being thrown at me from all directions. I walk into one job, BAM! $200 in tips! Then I get off, go to the second job, BAM! There's an envelope sitting in the cash drawers with my name on it with $200 in commission. Then I get paid every other week in both jobs, but the weeks are oposite, so basically I'm getting a nice fatty 2 week check every week. Even my tip job pays decent hourly. I'm having $350-400 days frequently. I know that's probably not a lot of money for many of the older international playboy ballers here, but for me, being 25 and 2 years ago making $12 an hour working 40 hours a week, it's a nice chunk of change.
But here's the thing... I work my fucking ass off. I just started to eat a nice healthy diet, but it's killing me following it. First of all, just finding the time to cook can be a burden in itself, not to mention finding time to go to the market and shop since I don't have a car. I was talking with a friend of mine who I suspect is somewhat of a feminist. I was telling her how I was considering getting a girlfriend because I need someone to wash my clothes and fix me meals. She was not too happy about that. She said, "You're looking for all the wrong reasons to find a girlfriend." Really? Oh yeah, I forgot, I want sex on demand too, guess that's what I must have been leaving out. It's been hard to keep in touch with friends or to work out. As far as my situation with women, it's not a whole lot worse than before I got the two jobs. I have a feeling this may be because of my confidence now that I am keeping busy and eating healthy. Sometimes I wanna just say fuck it, my origional job pays well by itself, fuck having both jobs. Get rid of the one and start living life!
I'm just really trying to figure out if it's worth it. And the answer right now for me is YES. Nothing worth having is easy to get. If it was, everyone would have it. I've heard Roosh say that in different words many times. So right now, I feel like I have to make some sacrifices as a man so that I can be where I want to be in the next 5 years. At the end of the day too, I also think, "What am I gonna do with all this money I save?" Usually I'm thinking, "I'm gonna invest the shit out of it, and try and make $60k into $100k, then $100k into $150k" and so on... The other part of me is thinking, "Save $25k an go travel the world for a year." But at the end of the day, I think investing is what I need to do so I can travel the world all through my 30s and 40s and be comfortable when I'm older.
My advice to you is fuck spending that money you have saved in the DR. Hold onto it, go work a couple more years in the oil industry, save $100k (Which if I remember correctly from other posts, it shouldn't take you more than 5 years to do, I would even think much less than that working in oil), invest that, and live in the DR and anywhere else your play boy heart desires!
