Idris Elba does paternity test on son, isn't father.
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That's a tough one, Vacancier. I think if you asked many guys that had this happen to them what they'd do before it actually happened to them, they might say they'd do something different than what they actually did. Namely, stayed with the conniving bitch that betrayed them. This is one of those things you have to actually be faced with to truly know what you'd do. Just like if you ask most women what they'd do if they found out their man was cheating on them. Most would say they'd leave/break up with him. When it happens to a girlfriend, they almost unanimously will counsel her to break up with the guy. But many women DON'T do that. They'll stay with the guy. One thing is certain though...it's got to be a daily humiliation for men that stay with her. It's got to be rough being with someone that's capable of doing something of THAT magnitude to you, and in many ways she's got to lose what little respect she had for you in the first place. Personally, I don't think I could swallow it.
Vacancier Permanent said:
Assuming this is in some parallel universe(or the far future) where I'm willingly having a kid, bizarro-iop890 would employ the following:
Athlone McGinnis said:
Of course a part of me would likely want to "get even", but I'd like to think I could just walk away having learned something rather than doing some unseemly shit and fucking off to Asia. But who knows?
However I do know myself well enough to say I wouldn't stay with the whore or be a father to the kid. I did some embarrassing things before I took the red-pill, but even at my most blue-pill/beta I wouldn't put up with that.
" [Hence your side comment about "other variables" to possibly get the discussion ball rolling]."
My side comment was alleging to the fact that ratchet ass hos in come in all races, so a girl being white or Asian is no iron clad assurance that she isn't fucking around on you either.
You seem to have an easier time vilifying me than holding adulterous cuckolding whores responsible. Whatever floats your boat man.
My side comment was alleging to the fact that ratchet ass hos in come in all races, so a girl being white or Asian is no iron clad assurance that she isn't fucking around on you either.
You seem to have an easier time vilifying me than holding adulterous cuckolding whores responsible. Whatever floats your boat man.
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I would handle it the same way he's handling it. When things are that bad, there's no point running and hiding from it.
You just have to own it, in a dignified way. Which is what he's doing. He may even be able to parlay some sympathy for himself into a positive thing. You just got to try to turn a negative into a positive.
But as for how he handles this bitch? Never speak to her again. Nor the offspring. No compromise, no backing down, no caving in.
Disloyalty or betrayal is the one unforgivable sin in business and in life relations.
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kdolo said:
Read somewhere that he was tapped to be the first black Bond.
What I can't gather is at what point did he realize the kid wasn't his?
At least he found out, and at least he wasn't married to the slag.
Think about the court cases where, post-divorce, men are court ordered to pay child support, get a DNA test done revealing paternity fraud, and the court still awards child support to the bitch.
In those cases, I can't think of any other reaction other than going on a massive murder rampage.
At least he found out, and at least he wasn't married to the slag.
Think about the court cases where, post-divorce, men are court ordered to pay child support, get a DNA test done revealing paternity fraud, and the court still awards child support to the bitch.
In those cases, I can't think of any other reaction other than going on a massive murder rampage.
The subject of paternity fraud once came up in casual conversation with a few friends---one of whom was pregnant. She had mentioned that her brother looked nothing like her dad and that she'd always wondered...but that in the end it wasn't relevant because "love is what matters".
I told her if genetics weren't a big deal, then she should have no problem being given a random baby from the maternity ward when it was time to go home. I mean, if love is all that matters then she should be happy with any child, right?
Right?
She shut right the hell up.
I told her if genetics weren't a big deal, then she should have no problem being given a random baby from the maternity ward when it was time to go home. I mean, if love is all that matters then she should be happy with any child, right?
Right?
She shut right the hell up.
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thedude3737 said:
From the initial quote, he had the inkling early on, but probably pushed it out of his mind. The eyeball test, while not foolproof, is pretty strong early on with kids. Maria Shriver knew the housekeeper's kid was Arnold's for YEARS, but couldn't bring herself to confront him with it until she got mad/humiliated, or whatever enough. As they get older, they even have certain mannerisms that are passed on from the father, as well as physical characteristics.
^^ What's the eyeball test?
An ex's cousin had a child with her then fiance while we were together. One thing I noticed at the time was how much social pressure there was for her extended family and her doctors to tell him that the child looked like him. They all pointed out features they had in common. Well dude had some sense and went ahead and got a paternity test. Not his kid. The kid wasn't even the same race as him - which became more obvious after a few months.
Anyway, even Julius Caesar and Genghis Khan were cuckolds.
An ex's cousin had a child with her then fiance while we were together. One thing I noticed at the time was how much social pressure there was for her extended family and her doctors to tell him that the child looked like him. They all pointed out features they had in common. Well dude had some sense and went ahead and got a paternity test. Not his kid. The kid wasn't even the same race as him - which became more obvious after a few months.
Anyway, even Julius Caesar and Genghis Khan were cuckolds.
For the guys reading this and thinking, "Damn, sucks to be that guy," just think a little bit more about it and realize that you probably have a lot more in common with him than you think. Regardless of what country you're reading this, you're most definitely paying for other people's mistakes right now...if you weren't, you wouldn't be seeing "net wages" on your paycheck.
I'm not trying to parrot some political belief here, just remember that if you feel strongly about these sort of things, stay consistent in your beliefs and actions. In the end, it's the only thing that separates "you" from "them".
I'm not trying to parrot some political belief here, just remember that if you feel strongly about these sort of things, stay consistent in your beliefs and actions. In the end, it's the only thing that separates "you" from "them".
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