Jay Dyer has no children, yet he's married and is Christian. Your arrogance is unreal.If you have sex and no children to show for it then all you have done is wasted your seed. It does not matter if you dated J'Lo in her prime - no kids to show for it means no real result.
You think people are gonna care when you are a balding 50 year old man with a beer belly and tell people about how you fornicated with some ladies in a hotel bar in Miami? If you don't have any progeny, any children to show for it you will just be that loser "uncle" with no kids.
Men have massive burdens to meet - socially, financially, and genetically- to attract and keep a woman (yes even the ones that attend church). Frankly, many men won't be capable of this, and I'm not sure where you draw the line between what you think God wants and what you're capable of achieving. At what point do you admit reality overrides your ideal fantasy? Her father will certainly be interested in what you do for a living and your ability to PAY for her.
Very few men are players like LINUX, you're acting like most men are. Most can't even get basic affection from a woman, like even a phone call / text / hug. It's why even single moms in their 30s have options. Most men just want a woman to show basic concern for them. It's why this forum existed in the first place, some of us went to christian schools of some kind and never got any advice about girls other than "GET MARRIED!" from a priest. The priest couldn't articulate that at least 1/3 of those boys probably couldn't even get a girlfriend.
Yea, it's ideal that at age 22 all of us got married and had all that going for us, but like Jay, I'm sure we had huge issues ---financially, socially, or otherwise that prevented us from doing that. Young women simply don't have this problem, they don't need to learn to run a relationship much less provide anything.
Maybe it's some sort of fate that us lone wolves are the ones who can afford to deny the vax. I admit if I had a wife and kids I cared about, I probably would've taken the jab if threatened with the ability to support them.