
Also a short homily on Sunday of the Cross by St John of Kronstadt:

Homily on the Sunday of the Cross. St. John of Kronstadt
Look, how the Lord as if announces to us from the Cross what He has endured for us.
I've never heard anyone ever say to refuse a host's food whilst fasting. This is extremely offensive to the host and not conducive to evangelism. I was recently listening to a talk by Abbot Tryphon, he relayed a story of a nun who asked her abbess to visit her family for western Christmas (they were on the Old Calendar which celebrates Nativity 13 days later while the nun's family was not Orthodox). The nun said she would keep the fast and refuse to eat anything against the fast at her family's home. The abbess looked at her and said you will eat what your mother puts before you.I feel like saying I’m fasting and refusing the hosts food is violating MT 6:17
The fast has got me thinking quite a bit about what separates us Orthodox Christians from “the world.” If you look at Orthodox Jews and Muslims - their traditions are a hill they die on.
The question for me is becoming - do we become more hardline to emphasize our otherness like the Muslims and Jews? Abba Poemen had some good wisdom that “if keeping the fast was so important, we should’ve stayed home.” He told a story I often call “the worlds first vegan.” I feel like saying I’m fasting and refusing the hosts food is violating MT 6:17. However Poemen lived in 5th century Egypt where everyone was Christian. We live in the 21st secular century where our otherness needs emphasized. Thoughts on which takes priority?
The problem is that family or acquaintances always offer explanations or ask for explanations regarding certain things, when limited interactions with other people should be the case (visiting, partying) in the first place.I think the important thing is not to be a Jew about it...
What I mean is, don't refuse if someone kindly brings you food that breaks the fast. It is better to break the fast than offend someone who is just being kind. However, its also the case that you shouldn't view this as a loophole, wherein you tell yourself that you can break the fast as much as you like if you can persuade people to give you meat as a 'gift'
I did just this about two weeks ago.But even in that case I think things should be clarified beforehand, not when you arrive for the meal.
I think you made the right call here. This wasn't refusing Grandma's pumpkin pie she made especially for you but instead keeping yourself from a scenario where, if you went and didn't overindulge, people would have made a bigger deal over it than not going altogether.I did just this about two weeks ago.
Got invited to a seafood boil a buddy was having. I knew if I went I'd overeat, I'd drink, I'd curse, all the usual.
Just told em to hit me up after Easter (they then asked if I was ok)
I told them it was Lent.
(They then asked what I gave up)
I told them.
And they were cool about it and said they'd save some of the seasoning for me.
I sometimes see stories like the one about the nun above and worry if I'm being 'Pharisaic' by refusing.
But I can't accept every invitation given to me. I'm not turning up my nose at them and I need to *try* to deny what the old me would've simply jumped at.
All situations have their own considerations.
Thank you.I think you made the right call here. This wasn't refusing Grandma's pumpkin pie she made especially for you but instead keeping yourself from a scenario where, if you went and didn't overindulge, people would have made a bigger deal over it than not going altogether.
This is not referring to the juice that may come from a piece of meat when it is cooked, but rather to the blood which is normally drained from an animal at the time it is butchered. And so such foods as "Blood Sausage," and "Black pudding," and some wines that have blood added to them should not be consumed by an Orthodox Christian.
This is questionable also on the basis of the writings of St. Paul. I don't consume blood products, however, so I'm open to certain people thinking they should not be consumed (due to their beliefs or weaknesses).![]()
Stump the Priest: The Council of Jerusalem on the Blood of Animals
Question: "In Acts 15, while not imposing circumcision or kosher dietary laws on gentile converts, the Apostles nevertheless commanded th...fatherjohn.blogspot.com
Now it makes sense why I never liked blood sausage. This is also something you might want to confess.
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Stump the Priest: The Council of Jerusalem on the Blood of Animals
Question: "In Acts 15, while not imposing circumcision or kosher dietary laws on gentile converts, the Apostles nevertheless commanded th...fatherjohn.blogspot.com
Now it makes sense why I never liked blood sausage. This is also something you might want to confess.
Your Lent is over? Does your Church follow the Julian Calendar Roosh? In any case, hope everyone had a blessed Palm Sunday. I do love seeing the big crowds even if they only show up once a year, it always fills me with hope.
"If someone is capable of even a little faith, they are capable of great faith."
I'm on the Old Calendar. Lent technically ends 40 days after it starts (on a Friday), then the next two days are Lazarus Saturday and Palm Sunday, then Holy Week begins on Monday.Your Lent is over? Does your Church follow the Julian Calendar Roosh? In any case, hope everyone had a blessed Palm Sunday. I do love seeing the big crowds even if they only show up once a year, it always fills me with hope.
"If someone is capable of even a little faith, they are capable of great faith."