It's frustrating not being able to effectively communicate to normies that this conflict is fundamentally not about Russia invading and victimizing the Ukraine, but about the GAE and ZOG attacking and attempting to victimize Russia. Most in the West just don't want to hear it and will call you a conspiracy theorist and fascist the moment you try to steer the conversation in that direction. As the war has gone on, the West and its supporters have become increasingly deranged so that if you so much as bring up Stepan Bandera and his Nazi ties you are effectively a propagandist for the Kremlin.
Try going with common reasoning instead, things that can't be disputed. Say "Ukraine wanted to join NATO, what would the USA do if Mexico decided to join up with China or Russia?".....they can't shame label their way out of that question. Once you jump to the more technical deep stuff then you are going to lose your audience, it's completely counter productive. If you can get them to see it from a different lens it may open up for them on their own.