'Kill two birds with one stone' approach? Perhaps not a bad thing.I simply don't agree. All kinds of hobbies and social activities can be enjoyable and there is nothing wrong or phony about choosing the ones where we can meet a life partner rather than the ones full of men.
This is espeically true of dance classes. Let's be real, how many men would genuinely be interested in them if it weren't for the women?
I don't like dancing, but I have a friend who used to kill it because he's good at swing dancing and would go to the free classes they do before swing dance nights at clubs.
If you go to church just to find a wife, know you're going to get tested.I think it's fine for people to question ideas posted here, but Cortes just seems determined to trash the very concept of choosing how to spend our free time partly in order to meet the right person. That doesn't help his credibility when he comments on specific examples. Even after multiple explanations he still writes as if we are suggesting "doing something you hate just to be around women" rather than say, something you think sounds fun that has lots of marriageable women over something that also sounds fun but is a sausage fest. I don't understand why this basic point is so hard?
Cortes' whole attitude reminds me of feminists who think even asking women out is inherently predatory and sketchy. So even a comment like "my local dogs home has loads of really nice young women who volunteer there" is presumably enough to set his alarm bells ringing.
I get that faith is very sacred to many people. But I don't get why it's a problem if a person goes to church partly for social reasons or romantic reasons or to ameliorate their loneliness and it then brings them closer to God - as regular church attendance inevitably will for many people. Reversing the sexes for a moment, how many women have gone to church over the centuries partly in the hope of meeting their future husband? I can't find it within me to do anything but wish them well.
LOL what is weird about them? And if the men are often incels by definition they are surely not in competition with you?
Except for dance classes. That’s the entire point of dancing usually.Don't do things just because you think you can meet a good woman doing it. Women can smell that on you and you won't get very far doing it. You should be doing these things because you enjoy them or you want to help others out.