Marrying a women that makes more than you? Well, from an economic point of view, today it takes two wage earners to support a family when it once took only one. That's more of a function of mismanagement, loose monetary policy and flooding the labor force with more workers, which in turn drives wages down. That said, as a man you should be the bread winner. And I think we can confidently say that for $$ woman > man is a consequence of an already perverse market/economy/society.
Women exceling in the workforce is a clouded issue. Because there are all kinds of policies, mandates, guidelines etc that promote women, many times, irregardless of competence or profitability. For instance, "they" now insist that women must be on corporate boards. For all of this, I don't take the career girl (tm) seriously. And why should I? Chances are she got there because of a handout. Its sad because there are some women that excel on their own. But, such is situation when you have the kind of social engineering we have today.
Generally, I'm kind of like who cares. Where this becomes an issue is when feminists make a big deal out of this in their typical obnoxious way. To them this is "progress" because they can have women ahead of men and they love that, plus, they hate marriage and they hate the family. For that reason, I detest their overtures. Not because I really care who makes more money, its the all to common rubbing it in our faces and acting like a immature teenager trying to one-up other people just to say they're better. And that's really the issue here.
Once again, we see this ideology for what it is.