Marrying conservative women from abroad and bringing them over to the west

I would like to marry a woman someday but since many women are just straight up sluts I was wondering if it would be a good idea to marry conservative/religious women from abroad? I'm talking about countries like Egypt, Morocco, Iran, and so on. Of course women over there cheat too but i reckon they cheat less than in the west because of Muslim laws etc.
 

MiXX

Newbie
Damn dude...you may be on the wrong forum. Most guys here are not marriage minded, or looking for wives. Those few that are married also like playing the field, and getting their freak on outside of marriage.


Mixx
 

Ajiaco

Robin
Do some practice runs...go travel and see the women in their own environment, it may change your perspective on things.
 

Tommy

Woodpecker
I don't think you will easily find a woman to marry in Morocco if you don't speak French.

The #1 country to find a wife like this is definately the Philippines
 

Menace

Crow
Gold Member
Unlike a pet, you cannot really keep your foreign wife captive inside your home. Unless she is of particularly good character and has the smarts to really know what's important, Western culture will slowly diffuse into her mind. After a while, she will take on Western (i.e. American) values and no longer be the woman you thought you were getting. Then it will be all down hill, unless you have tight LTR game.

Eddy Murphy has a skit on this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq8nUyO-0SY
 

Tommy

Woodpecker
I met a 26 year old Filipina who was married with a Swedish guy. She told me he used to locked her up in his house in Europe because he was too jealous.

A friend of mine is married with a Russian and she doesn't go out of the house, is always inside, has no hobbies, sleeps late, is SO boring to talk with I can't even look in her eyes and she gets constantly mad at my friend when I go out to drink with him, even if he didn't go out for months, that's pathetic. I can't have a wife like this.
 
Menace said:
Unlike a pet, you cannot really keep your foreign wife captive inside your home. Unless she is of particularly good character and has the smarts to really know what's important, Western culture will slowly diffuse into her mind. After a while, she will take on Western (i.e. American) values and no longer be the woman you thought you were getting. Then it will be all down hill, unless you have tight LTR game.

Eddy Murphy has a skit on this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq8nUyO-0SY
that's just too funny and true.
 

oldnemesis

Ostrich
Konkerer said:
I would like to marry a woman someday but since many women are just straight up sluts I was wondering if it would be a good idea to marry conservative/religious women from abroad?
If your wife comes from similar language and cultural background, you speak the same language fluently (this is bare minimum), and her relationship value would be similar to yours once you bring her to US, then it is a good idea, and it has a good chance to work.

However this is significantly harder comparing to getting a girl in your own country. Think about it, you're facing the same issues you have in your own country - you need to find a woman which you share the same values with. Do you know what real values a typical Egypt woman have? How strong they are? Which could be ignored, and which cannot?

I'm talking about countries like Egypt, Morocco, Iran, and so on. Of course women over there cheat too but i reckon they cheat less than in the west because of Muslim laws etc.
Are you a Muslim? If not, are you ready to become one? I really doubt a conservative religious Muslim family would let their daughter to marry an infidel.
 

thoughtgypsy

Kingfisher
Gold Member
I'm sure this question has popped across your minds at some point. If you're planning on having a family some day, maybe you've thought about finding a traditional woman from a foreign country and bringing her over. I've seen this idea bubbling up for a while now, and the following threads have generated some insightful discussion:

Wife Hunting Abroad
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-50002.html

Anecdotes of how Western culture affects foreign born women
https://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-52498.html

My question to you guys is, can you bring a woman from a foreign country over to the west without it corrupting her?

My thoughts are that it is pretty much a losing battle. It may be possible if you can provide alternative social groups and entertainment so that she's largely insulated from western influences, while maintaining your leverage over her.
 

UberBicep

Sparrow
You really need to visit those countries and see what the women are like. I used to think the same about Thailand and the Philippines as the women are really feminine and caring, but after living in those countries to my surprise I came to realise:

1) Prostitution and STIs are rife
2) Many of these girls are gold diggers and only care how deep your pockets are
3) It's easy to get laid in these countries, not because you are handsome or exotic, but because they are sluts

The grass is always greener.
 

CleanSlate

Hummingbird
Gold Member
The more I think about it, the more I dislike the idea of keeping an imported wife isolated out of fear that she'd get corrupted by Western culture.

There has to be a better way. I don't have any better answers, but somehow I don't think this is it.
 

Laner

Hummingbird
Gold Member
CleanSlate said:
The more I think about it, the more I dislike the idea of keeping an imported wife isolated out of fear that she'd get corrupted by Western culture.

There has to be a better way. I don't have any better answers, but somehow I don't think this is it.
I agree and its why I mostly stay out of the discussions on marriage when the threads turn to the isolation method.

Having lived and traveled in places where many of guys think of importing wives from, I have to say that personally I would not want to live there for any length of time.

To get what I want out of my life, for my personal happiness, I will live where I do. For that reason importing was the only way. Thinking that by keeping a woman outside of the west is the best way from corrupting her is backwards thinking. If her personality is so fragile that any sort of western thought is enough to begin her road to permanent damage then she was not wife material to begin with.

No amount of isolation is enough to stop this. The only thing that isolation might cure is a mans blindness to his own failings to find a decent woman.

Its easy to overlook a woman's natural tendencies in some foreign shithole but not so easy when back in the west and her loose pussy suddenly slaps you in the face.
 

Menace

Crow
Gold Member
CleanSlate said:
The more I think about it, the more I dislike the idea of keeping an imported wife isolated out of fear that she'd get corrupted by Western culture.

There has to be a better way. I don't have any better answers, but somehow I don't think this is it.
Speaking generally, if you have a fear that your wife is going to become corrupted by Western culture, then you should not be getting married. You just do not have your shit together then. You can't live in fear period. Anything can happen, no matter how "alpha" or whatever you are.

This fear is really just a manifestation of your own insecurity.

Find a woman from your preferred ethnicity or culture right here in the US. The whole "corruption" issue is wildly overblown. I see foreign women exclusively, and they are not corrupted according to my understanding.

To put it more brutally (and not directed at anyone in this thread) this mentality comes down to: I'm a loser and I want a pseudo-slave.
 

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While I agree that you can't live in fear - nothing is 100% guaranteed - that doesn't mean that you take risks that you can afford and are willing to avoid.

Thus, if you can afford to leave the West, and if you can adjust to life abroad - two big ifs - then I don't see why you would marry in the West.

Not directed at anyone here ;) but some seem willing to accept the "man up and accept any bullshit" mentality that got the West where it is in the first place.
 

thoughtgypsy

Kingfisher
Gold Member
The impression I'm getting is that the answer is:

No, you cannot you bring a woman from a foreign country over to the west without it corrupting her.

Is that a fair take?
 

WestIndianArchie

Peacock
Gold Member
If you get married and stay abroad, a chick has all the power and ability to subvert that society against you. Most of you guys are looking fo love in corrupt places. You don't think they can't do anything to a gringo?

If you bring her back here, to the west, now she could legally fuck you over with your own system.

So if you have to do all this finagling and pussyfooting around, she is the one that is in charge.

That's not game. That's not alpha.

What alpha you know is afraid of what his woman is going to do?

When did this board become so beta?

WIA
 

SirTimothy

Kingfisher
Laner said:
CleanSlate said:
The more I think about it, the more I dislike the idea of keeping an imported wife isolated out of fear that she'd get corrupted by Western culture.

There has to be a better way. I don't have any better answers, but somehow I don't think this is it.
I agree and its why I mostly stay out of the discussions on marriage when the threads turn to the isolation method.

Having lived and traveled in places where many of guys think of importing wives from, I have to say that personally I would not want to live there for any length of time.

To get what I want out of my life, for my personal happiness, I will live where I do. For that reason importing was the only way. Thinking that by keeping a woman outside of the west is the best way from corrupting her is backwards thinking. If her personality is so fragile that any sort of western thought is enough to begin her road to permanent damage then she was not wife material to begin with.

No amount of isolation is enough to stop this. The only thing that isolation might cure is a mans blindness to his own failings to find a decent woman.

Its easy to overlook a woman's natural tendencies in some foreign shithole but not so easy when back in the west and her loose pussy suddenly slaps you in the face.
I just got the weirdest mental image from that sentence.
 

redbeard

Hummingbird
Moderator
MiXX said:
Damn dude...you may be on the wrong forum. Most guys here are not marriage minded, or looking for wives. Those few that are married also like playing the field, and getting their freak on outside of marriage.


Mixx
 

Saga

Woodpecker
WestIndianArchie said:
So if you have to do all this finagling and pussyfooting around, she is the one that is in charge.

That's not game.
Game is all about modifying one's behavior to optimize one's success with women...this discussion is about making choices that optimize one's chances of a successful marriage, which in principle is no different. So how is it not game?
 
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