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<blockquote data-quote="Rocha" data-source="post: 15603" data-attributes="member: 5075"><p>My take here is that it is all a matter of supply and demand.</p><p></p><p>Let´s take for example Svetlana from Odessa, she may or not have a career but certainly she has friends and many male friends, she goes out when she can, she goes to the countryside with said friends, she probably drinks at least socially, she has foreigners hitting on her online and the ocasional or not westerner/arab sex tourist, she watches the same shows and movies has her american counterpart, uses instagram...and so on. This could apply also to a colombian, brazilian or a southeast asian. So this is not what will corrupt her.</p><p></p><p>What will happen is that after coming to the west she will start to see guys who have more money, better car/house, more muscles, better style/looking with lesser attractive girls than her. That is when she will start to question, add that by that she was already approached and catcalled a few times, not that the guys back from where she comes do not do it, but certainly not the same quality nor the same ammount of them. </p><p></p><p>Taking her to a remote location can work for a while, but soon she will feel bored, and will want to at least get a job, of wich she will want to keep the income to herself or to support the family back home, and since you are the man you have to provide everything since it was part of the initial contract when she accepted the offer to move west. Then she will hear how her co-workers play with those failled beta guys...</p><p></p><p>So unless you are of completely higher value than her (and value for men is measured by looks, wallet and personality, whereas she can use only her looks) bringing an attractive girl in her early twenties to wife up and expect that things go like a fairytale is just that, a fantasy.</p><p>These sweet woman are a product of their landscape, and taking them out of it, and specially in a hunting mission (some successful couples have met trough work for example, while the guy was an expat), normally brings a sour taste in the mouth.</p><p></p><p>With slightly older woman (late 20s forward), with a kid to lookout for and already burned by the harshness of life in a 2nd or 3d world country, then I believe things can work out better. But then you have to be ready to "man up" and help to raise her kid. </p><p>While attractive and slim, the problems summed up will also exist, but she will be more aware of her place and the accepted deal, and is not in the same position to make errors in life.</p><p></p><p>If you really want or have to live in the States or in the west, I think it is better to date foreign woman who are accultured and aclimatized. Certainly there will be much less drama and negative surprises than wife hunting abroad. On the other side, it will be much more difficult to get the same ammount of quantity, quality, or perceived "cleaner" personality than chasing them in the source.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Rocha, post: 15603, member: 5075"] My take here is that it is all a matter of supply and demand. Let´s take for example Svetlana from Odessa, she may or not have a career but certainly she has friends and many male friends, she goes out when she can, she goes to the countryside with said friends, she probably drinks at least socially, she has foreigners hitting on her online and the ocasional or not westerner/arab sex tourist, she watches the same shows and movies has her american counterpart, uses instagram...and so on. This could apply also to a colombian, brazilian or a southeast asian. So this is not what will corrupt her. What will happen is that after coming to the west she will start to see guys who have more money, better car/house, more muscles, better style/looking with lesser attractive girls than her. That is when she will start to question, add that by that she was already approached and catcalled a few times, not that the guys back from where she comes do not do it, but certainly not the same quality nor the same ammount of them. Taking her to a remote location can work for a while, but soon she will feel bored, and will want to at least get a job, of wich she will want to keep the income to herself or to support the family back home, and since you are the man you have to provide everything since it was part of the initial contract when she accepted the offer to move west. Then she will hear how her co-workers play with those failled beta guys... So unless you are of completely higher value than her (and value for men is measured by looks, wallet and personality, whereas she can use only her looks) bringing an attractive girl in her early twenties to wife up and expect that things go like a fairytale is just that, a fantasy. These sweet woman are a product of their landscape, and taking them out of it, and specially in a hunting mission (some successful couples have met trough work for example, while the guy was an expat), normally brings a sour taste in the mouth. With slightly older woman (late 20s forward), with a kid to lookout for and already burned by the harshness of life in a 2nd or 3d world country, then I believe things can work out better. But then you have to be ready to "man up" and help to raise her kid. While attractive and slim, the problems summed up will also exist, but she will be more aware of her place and the accepted deal, and is not in the same position to make errors in life. If you really want or have to live in the States or in the west, I think it is better to date foreign woman who are accultured and aclimatized. Certainly there will be much less drama and negative surprises than wife hunting abroad. On the other side, it will be much more difficult to get the same ammount of quantity, quality, or perceived "cleaner" personality than chasing them in the source. [/QUOTE]
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