I've heard pretty much every ex-gf talk about some rape incident they've "suffered".
One of them got DPed by two dudes while she was drunk.
One of them told me she hooked up with this guy after I broke up with her, he forced her to have sex. I asked her if she fought back, she said she froze. He bought her flowers afterward.
One of them told me she was raped when she was 15 by a 17 year old kid. At some point we talked about how he raped her, like what position. She said she was on top.
While I don't know the gruesome details in each case (I really don't give a fuck), just based on the tone that these sluts would tell these stories I knew it wasn't rape. They were young, stupid, probably drunk, and probably slutty. None of them got mugged in a park after dark, yelling for help. None of them were dragged off somewhere remote, none of them were beaten. In each case there was some degree of willingness. And all three would be the first to tell you they were raped.
They're all settled with boyfriends now. I feel bad for those guys. If I was with a girl that had been genuinely, violently, forcibly raped, I would never think less of her and I would try to express the utmost compassion regarding the subject if it ever came up. But due to Western girls' use of the word, anytime I hear a girl talk about a rape story I just think, "You probably asked for it you dumb slut."