More Proof That Marriage Ruins Alpha Men
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Chad Daring
Ostrich
Marriage brings "responsibilities" that by nature will hinder a mans enjoyment of life, its unavoidable. You can no longer just say "fuck it I"m gonna go do _______"
satanova77
Robin
I could add volumes to this thread based on real life situation of mine or countless friends....but will just skip to the bottom line....
NOBODY ON THIS FORUM SHOULD EVER GET MARRIED.....
For an Alpha to stay Alpha in marriage requires not only major balls and skills(if you are gaming on the side) but hardest part is to lift your head up high everyday in face of crushing blows from society, relatives and the Lizard you thought could be a life partner....
E.g I am riding to San Antonio with a 40 yr old guy who manages 20 engineers and a peer of mine....lives in my neighbourhood and say
me: you wanna do happy hour with my team this week...
him: yah i will ask my wife for permission and let you know....
me: you are kidding right about the permission thing?
him(bedazzled looking at me): you dont need permission to do stuff?
me: my wife is lucky if i inform here where i am most of the time....i just tell her what time i will be home...
him: i dont know....you know what they say "a happy wife means a happy life"
Fucker was giggling while he was saying this and I wanted to kick him out of a car running at 75 mph....this is the problem with society today...this bald fat baldless motherfucker's wife knows how she controls him and boasts about it in front of other wives and they take this initiative and go back home and try to subdue their husbands with mind eating tactics and bickering...
The only reason men stay married is due to having either or all of the following...sadly most married guys who act happy have all three deficiencies below...
1. No options or game
2. Kids
3. Insecurities
I want to go so far as to say nobody should be in a LTR period but that pill can be swallowed depending on what "LONG" (duration) means in LTR.......
NOBODY ON THIS FORUM SHOULD EVER GET MARRIED.....
For an Alpha to stay Alpha in marriage requires not only major balls and skills(if you are gaming on the side) but hardest part is to lift your head up high everyday in face of crushing blows from society, relatives and the Lizard you thought could be a life partner....
E.g I am riding to San Antonio with a 40 yr old guy who manages 20 engineers and a peer of mine....lives in my neighbourhood and say
me: you wanna do happy hour with my team this week...
him: yah i will ask my wife for permission and let you know....
me: you are kidding right about the permission thing?
him(bedazzled looking at me): you dont need permission to do stuff?
me: my wife is lucky if i inform here where i am most of the time....i just tell her what time i will be home...
him: i dont know....you know what they say "a happy wife means a happy life"
Fucker was giggling while he was saying this and I wanted to kick him out of a car running at 75 mph....this is the problem with society today...this bald fat baldless motherfucker's wife knows how she controls him and boasts about it in front of other wives and they take this initiative and go back home and try to subdue their husbands with mind eating tactics and bickering...
The only reason men stay married is due to having either or all of the following...sadly most married guys who act happy have all three deficiencies below...
1. No options or game
2. Kids
3. Insecurities
I want to go so far as to say nobody should be in a LTR period but that pill can be swallowed depending on what "LONG" (duration) means in LTR.......
Lord Sidious
Chicken
satanova77 said:
Satanova, i got into the game after my wife started kicking my ass all the time, day and night, relentlessly. this is my way out of misery of marriage.... i am always in control except when it come ot marriage, being an alpha i am, i find pleasure in what i do the best, slay lizards. !! keep up the good work.
oldnemesis
Ostrich
Why do you guys think he actually WAS an alpha man to start with? Just because he played one in movies?
Steven Lurkel
Sparrow
Hahaha! man, great minds think alike Gmac! Not two weeks ago I dubbed Brad Pitt, "The White Len Bias"...cos he's dead and it's his own fault.
Chad Daring
Ostrich
oldnemesis said:
This is actually a good point, he played Tyler Durden, doesn't mean he was Tyler Durden.
This from a married man: yeah, it's a sacrifice. Your freedom, your options, etc. (fresh pussy not totally excluded, because you can still get something on the side).
But it's worth it if it's a sacrifice you make for the sake of your children. They need a dad in their lives, and not a dad who constantly fights with mom because he is a whoremonger, and not a dad who is never home either.
So there you have it: if you want kids and the rewards that come from being a father - you know what sacrifice you have to make.
Now, if you make it for another reason - such as the convenience of having a ready pussy in your bed, or for social conventions, or out of insecurity or whatever else - then you are a fool and deserve your fate.
But it's worth it if it's a sacrifice you make for the sake of your children. They need a dad in their lives, and not a dad who constantly fights with mom because he is a whoremonger, and not a dad who is never home either.
So there you have it: if you want kids and the rewards that come from being a father - you know what sacrifice you have to make.
Now, if you make it for another reason - such as the convenience of having a ready pussy in your bed, or for social conventions, or out of insecurity or whatever else - then you are a fool and deserve your fate.
oldnemesis
Ostrich
K-man said:
It is not a sacrifice, it is exchange. You're giving away some options, and instead you're getting some other options you didn't have before.
If one only gave away something in marriage and didn't get anything else back, then I wonder why would he get (or stay) married at all?
oldnemesis said:
You must get married-to continue single after a certain point is a sure sign of arrested development. Even when married,why should the pussy stop? Btw, I think we should stop using the Hollywood template as examples and stick with the real world,even if anonymous utterly nondescript dudes,cause the distortions of the make believe celluloid world skew our perspective.
Or also, there's the problem of having children: http://www.npr.org/2011/09/17/140557571/fatherhood-not-testosterone-makes-the-man
(the major finding: a survey of 600+ Filipino men starting at age 21 lost up to 34% base testosterone level five years after having children)
Interesting.
(the major finding: a survey of 600+ Filipino men starting at age 21 lost up to 34% base testosterone level five years after having children)
Interesting.
Chad Daring
Ostrich
Stitch said:
That kinda makes sense, in a species propagation kind of way. Lower testosterone means a calmer more "caregiving" male. Its basically nature turning the young bull into a family man, whether he likes it or not.
I always had an inverse theory about this as to why in the past decade or so girls seem to take a liking to more feminine men (rise of the emos)
Effeminate have definitely become more prominent, but men only do what gets women. Why are women/girls going for these guys? Birth control. It whacks out their hormones and puts their body in a state similar to pregnancy, minus the baby. This puts her in child raising mode, rather then "find and fuck the biggets baddest dude" mode. They start to look for guys that are calmer, gentler, and more sensitive. Might also explain the wide spread cases of female oneitis. As well as female craziness. They still want an alpha but their hormones are driving them towards child raising betas.