I have a know-it-all relative that's a teacher and took the first dose. She has to get the second dose at some point.
Her and I crossed paths yesterday, she's having issues with the school and the union regarding wearing a mask in the classroom (the mask gives her anxiety). The school has told her that if she can't wear the mask in school, she can take a sick day or a vacation day and then do remote teaching (but if she's teaching then it's not a sick day blah blah blah).
I pounced on the shot in front of the other relatives.
"You got the shot, right ?"
"Yeah, had to drive to (90 minutes away) at 5 in the morning for it."
"So why do you need to wear a mask if you got the shot ?"
"Because the mask is a requirement at the school."
"But... you got the shot... I don't get it."
"Neither do I, Sam."
Another relative (Derek) chimed in that J&J just came out with the vac, and then asked the teacher what brand of shot she got. The teacher, in a casual and dismissive tone, simply replied, "Oh I don't know, whatever they were using in (90 miles away)."
"Shouldn't you get the second dose from the same company as the first one ?"
"They just gave me what they had. Does it matter if the companies are different ?"
Derek and I sort of looked at each other in disbelief for a moment. Here was a teacher that (you'd think) would have at least done the research, turning herself into a guinea pig with no hesitation. Before either of us could say anything, another relative spoke up about them not even considering the shot until at least another year or so down the road ("F that, I'm not gonna be the test monkey.").
On the plus side, after the teacher left, the rest of us had a pretty good discussion about the vaccine, and as of 8:30 last night, the remaining 7 relatives last night aren't getting the shot.
T L: D R
Don't be afraid to be the cheese that stands alone. Poke holes in their reasoning for the shot. Ask them questions, gauge their answers, and adjust accordingly. You may find allies that your actions helped them find their voice.
Her and I crossed paths yesterday, she's having issues with the school and the union regarding wearing a mask in the classroom (the mask gives her anxiety). The school has told her that if she can't wear the mask in school, she can take a sick day or a vacation day and then do remote teaching (but if she's teaching then it's not a sick day blah blah blah).
I pounced on the shot in front of the other relatives.
"You got the shot, right ?"
"Yeah, had to drive to (90 minutes away) at 5 in the morning for it."
"So why do you need to wear a mask if you got the shot ?"
"Because the mask is a requirement at the school."
"But... you got the shot... I don't get it."
"Neither do I, Sam."
Another relative (Derek) chimed in that J&J just came out with the vac, and then asked the teacher what brand of shot she got. The teacher, in a casual and dismissive tone, simply replied, "Oh I don't know, whatever they were using in (90 miles away)."
"Shouldn't you get the second dose from the same company as the first one ?"
"They just gave me what they had. Does it matter if the companies are different ?"
Derek and I sort of looked at each other in disbelief for a moment. Here was a teacher that (you'd think) would have at least done the research, turning herself into a guinea pig with no hesitation. Before either of us could say anything, another relative spoke up about them not even considering the shot until at least another year or so down the road ("F that, I'm not gonna be the test monkey.").
On the plus side, after the teacher left, the rest of us had a pretty good discussion about the vaccine, and as of 8:30 last night, the remaining 7 relatives last night aren't getting the shot.
T L: D R
Don't be afraid to be the cheese that stands alone. Poke holes in their reasoning for the shot. Ask them questions, gauge their answers, and adjust accordingly. You may find allies that your actions helped them find their voice.